im sorry girls...

am i crazy Posted: Jan 06, 2007 01:07 AM

im sorry girls...

thank you for thinking about me and all your best wishes. one girl sent me an email and was very nice and asked me a ? which shocked me very much...she asked if i tend to cheat with this guy from work when i have my period or am getting it bc girls tend to cheat more and its so true because for the past month i havent wanted to be with him except during those times and i dont understand how i can go from one extreme to the other and i know u girls hate me and think im so horrible but i do too..i hate what i have done but i love my fh and i told the guy that we cant talk anymore and he told me he understands. i love my fh and what most girls fm me was they believe that i love him and sometimes ppl make mistakes and another thing is after being with my fh for so long the bedroom is not at all what it once was and the excitement of somebody new was right in front of me and i gave into temptation and i am not a serial cheater i said i cheated on my fh before in my first post but that was when we first started dating many years ago and were not serious. thank you girls for your thoughts and opinions and for making me see what my fh and i have is real

Soon2BMrsD Posted: Jan 06, 2007 01:10 AM

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have you decided to tell fh?

i guess thats really none of my business... just wondering.. i hope everythings ok. and your working things out!... i u need to talk please feel free to fm if u need to!

MillerFord742008 Posted: Jan 06, 2007 01:49 AM

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I wish u the best boo! I hope everything goes the way u and ur fh want it!

Snowflake08 Posted: Jan 06, 2007 02:07 AM

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is that the anonymous08er?

Soon2BMrsD Posted: Jan 06, 2007 02:12 AM

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Posted by Snowflake08

is that the anonymous08er?

yes

cherish83 Posted: Jan 06, 2007 09:15 AM

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yes it. Well I hope all works out for you.

cmrcmr0430 Posted: Jan 06, 2007 09:22 AM

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ZeppsGirl Posted: Jan 06, 2007 11:59 AM

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I believe that i was the one that told her that females tend to cheat more when they are ovulating. There was research that had been done and I worked in a crisis prevention center and actually had to read and share the research with other people that I worked with.

What happens is that your senses and sex drive become enhanced. i swear!

DavaDay Posted: Jan 06, 2007 01:13 PM

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I'm happy to hear you made a decision, and that you chose to stay with your FH and cut it off with this other guy.

Now, so you don't have the temptation to 'get your kicks' elsewhere, it's time to spice things up with FH in the bedroom... see you for some Raunch and I'm sure the 08ers will have plenty of ideas for you.

snowcutie82 Posted: Jan 06, 2007 07:50 PM

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thanks for the update! good luck with everything!!!

SoontobeMrsH Posted: Jan 06, 2007 08:18 PM

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good luck w/ everything

Mrs. V 2008 Posted: Jan 06, 2007 09:22 PM

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I hope everything works out!

Snowflake08 Posted: Jan 06, 2007 10:41 PM

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i wish you the best and good luck with everything

rysie Posted: Jan 06, 2007 10:48 PM

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I'm glad to here you made a decision and hope that everything works out for you and your FH. Best of luck to you both!

megzzie Posted: Jan 07, 2007 11:38 AM

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Glad to hear you decided to stay with FH. Good luck!

TakingtheLongWay Posted: Jan 07, 2007 04:33 PM

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Best of luck to you and your FH.

Espo22 Posted: Jan 07, 2007 04:42 PM

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Posted by ZeppsGirl

I believe that i was the one that told her that females tend to cheat more when they are ovulating. There was research that had been done and I worked in a crisis prevention center and actually had to read and share the research with other people that I worked with.

What happens is that your senses and sex drive become enhanced. i swear!

That is definitely true

Espo22 Posted: Jan 07, 2007 04:44 PM

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I think you made the right decision. You will only hurt yourself and Fh in the end, it's not worth it. You're not the only one to have done this and wont be the last. My best advice is to talk to your Fh about your love life, tell him that you feel it has become a little bit boring or maybe not boring but just the same thing and no more excitement. Most guys don't realize there is a problem unless you tell them...You two can find ways to spice up your love life again and become exciting for the both of you again...Good luck

ZeppsGirl Posted: Jan 07, 2007 06:18 PM

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Posted by Espo22

I think you made the right decision. You will only hurt yourself and Fh in the end, it's not worth it. You're not the only one to have done this and wont be the last. My best advice is to talk to your Fh about your love life, tell him that you feel it has become a little bit boring or maybe not boring but just the same thing and no more excitement. Most guys don't realize there is a problem unless you tell them...You two can find ways to spice up your love life again and become exciting for the both of you again...Good luck

I definitely agree. I think that he will probably be more game to help mixx things up and make it fun. If you are feeling something lag in the relationship, 80% of the time so does your partner. I think that sometimes it is so had to really communicate our wants. but once we do things can only be better for the both of you. The connection will be stronger and the love will be more real...something that a lot of couples dont have.

I wish you nothing but love and the strength to get through this.