i'm starting to feel overwhelmed ...

this wedding plannig stuff is starting to drive me insane so many decisons to make and so much money to come up with for a deposit ...and with xmas around thats just less money for deposits!!!! i want the planning to be over with already and i just started ,,, this is going to be a long 488 Days ... i think once i book my DJ and photographer ill be fine ... i just dont know who to go with .... i think i;m going with Let us entertain you for the DJ but the photgrapher i just dont know ... ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ..........


ok thanks just needed to let it out ....

awwwwwwww, your wedding is on my birthday!!

thought you could use one & I'm in your boat, The vendors we had in mind, I'm having second thoughts about b/c the quotes we recv'd seem very very high, to we're looking elsewhere

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Posted by beachbum05

awwwwwwww, your wedding is on my birthday!!

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great day to have your birthday!!!!!

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Posted by perfectpair

thought you could use one & I'm in your boat, The vendors we had in mind, I'm having second thoughts about b/c the quotes we recv'd seem very very high, to we're looking elsewhere

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thanks i could def. use one of those ... ... and this is how i feel about the photographer ... i never thought that it would cost that much for a photographer .... this is my biggest delima ...

aw! your day is the best!!!

lol !!

Anyway, I know how you feel. I was overwhelmed because I couldn't find the right place, and today was it. Now after the New Year I'll be right back with you about photographers and stuff.... It'll be okay, that's why you have us girls here!!!

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Posted by BellaLaz

aw! your day is the best!!!

lol !!

Anyway, I know how you feel. I was overwhelmed because I couldn't find the right place, and today was it. Now after the New Year I'll be right back with you about photographers and stuff.... It'll be okay, that's why you have us girls here!!!

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thanks for the suppor t... and about my day i was a little hesitnat because you know its 420 and i was like do i really want my wedding day to be on 420 but i was like screw it ... more reason to celebrate ... lol lol

lol!

i was going to pick 4.20 .. but then i thought of my friends coming to my wedding, if they REMEMBERED .... yes, they are big smokers.. lol!!!!

, it'a th

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Posted by blu6385

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Posted by BellaLaz

aw! your day is the best!!!

lol !!

Anyway, I know how you feel. I was overwhelmed because I couldn't find the right place, and today was it. Now after the New Year I'll be right back with you about photographers and stuff.... It'll be okay, that's why you have us girls here!!!

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thanks for the suppor t... and about my day i was a little hesitnat because you know its 420 and i was like do i really want my wedding day to be on 420 but i was like screw it ... more reason to celebrate ... lol lol

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I like it, it's like our own nod &

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Posted by Espo22

I was actually gonna post about the same thing. It's like one deposit after another. Honestly its not even the money thing that is really getting to me. It's all the people involved, and you can't do this bc this one will get mad and trying to keep everyone happy, and all the opinions and so on. I am not getting into details but I am sure alot of you have to deal with this type of stuff and know what I am talking about.

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thats another thing i am sick of ...i already to d my FH if he doesent wantme to hate his family to keep them awya from me until we get married!!!!!!!!

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Posted by BellaLaz

lol!

i was going to pick 4.20 .. but then i thought of my friends coming to my wedding, if they REMEMBERED .... yes, they are big smokers.. lol!!!!

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yeah so are my friends and yeah me tooo but i did cut down very much i just fdo it once in a while ....and yes FH and almost all his groomsmen ... i warned him do no celebrating till after pictures ,,,,

Everyone is soooo annoying. And no one offers suggestions to help.

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Posted by Autumn08

Everyone is soooo annoying. And no one offers suggestions to help.

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or they offer too much, its almost a lose lose situation. I keep thinking OH GOD THIS IS JUST THE BEGINNING!!!!!!!!

yeah they need to understand that just because that is what they did, doesn't mean you have to do the same thing. Its your wedding not theirs. I don't understand why others expect someone to do what they want or what they think should be done

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yeah so are my friends and yeah me tooo but i did cut down very much i just fdo it once in a while ....and yes FH and almost all his groomsmen ... i warned him do no celebrating till after pictures ,,,,


lol!! omg!!!! i'm in the same boat!!! with the fh and the groomsmen.. 2 of them are my closest friends... and 2 of my BM's too!! lol

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Posted by blu6385

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Posted by perfectpair

thought you could use one & I'm in your boat, The vendors we had in mind, I'm having second thoughts about b/c the quotes we recv'd seem very very high, to we're looking elsewhere

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thanks i could def. use one of those ... ... and this is how i feel about the photographer ... i never thought that it would cost that much for a photographer .... this is my biggest delima ...

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People we associate w/ are in industry, we were quoted almost 40% higher on several vendeors that are nessersary I' m rethinking it all now