im starting to hate my bridal party

Original post by peaches42587

Jul 15, 2009 09:10 AM

I have two bridesmaids and a MOH. MOH is my cousin and shes really starting to piss me off. over the past few weeks i would joke around saying 'get ready, cause ur gonna be stuffing envelopes with me all night' and yadda yadda yadda. and my aunt and her would laugh and be like 'yea right do it yourself its ur wedding'.
non of my bridesmaids want to help out and blame it on my wedding being so far away. But ive done everything without anyones help and its pissing me off.

BUT THIS IS WHAT REALLY THREW ME OVER THE EDGE! I was suppose to go to the bridal showcase at cheatu briand tonight wtih my MOH and Aunt (which they kept talking about and claimed they were excited to come with me) and then this morning she calls to tell me she's going to see harry potter instead and that's more important. ***!?

No one is excited for this wedding. No one! not even FH. he sits on his *** and does nothing when it comes to wedding stuff. I can't take this !!

SORRY FOR THE LONG VENT!!

DKaye09 Posted: Jul 15, 2009 12:45 PM

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Think about it, you still have a TON of time left... no need to rush it all now.

I understand how frustrating it is though. Mine is 3 months away. My MOH is the most bland, plain, but picky person. My BM is aggravatingly hard to get a hold of, and is going through some personal **** right now, so she is a little all over the place. The other person in my bridal party is a JrBM, so she's not accountable for anything since she's too young. My FG's parents haven't gotten back to me yet as far as if the dress we ordered has arrived/fits/etc, or if the headpiece they were going to make, rather than buy, has even been started. My FH has yet to take the GMs to do the tuxes as well.....

Sometimes I feel as though I am the only one working on this thing.

beebs341 Posted: Jul 15, 2009 12:53 PM

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Sorry you're going through this. Just sit back, breathe, and know that everything will work out in the end

JAAMS Posted: Jul 15, 2009 10:30 PM

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Bee12 Posted: Nov 08, 2009 12:57 PM

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im feeling like this today....

April_Luv Posted: Nov 08, 2009 02:08 PM

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Wow! I'm sorry ladies!! ;(
What is wrong with theses people? Family and so called friends! If someone asks you to be in a bridal party, why accept if you cant join in the excitement with that Bride/couple. Now for the FH- how is it that you want to get married but dont see the importance in a joint venture that involves YOU..Yes-that includes being a part of the festivities and ideas of getting married? Why does it have to be all about the bride-it should be about BOTH parties...

With the bridal party i have to wonder if jealousy plays a part because, i cant for the life of me be that mean to a friend in her time of need. Heck i dont even know you ladies on a personal level and i feel like i want to help you stuff envelopes all night and go RH hopping lol

I hope the people in your lives can get it together! :)

cavvento Posted: Nov 08, 2009 02:52 PM

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Posted by MrsCastanedain09

It's probably because it's still over a year away....that's probably how they see it. Don't take it to heart, I'm sure they will get excited when it's closer.

I agree with this