im starting to think ....

HopelessRomantic Posted: Nov 08, 2010 04:17 PM

im starting to think ....

allornil Posted: Nov 08, 2010 04:24 PM

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you address it now. you decide if its worth staying in the relationship and you seek counseling.

leighlo1226 Posted: Nov 08, 2010 04:25 PM

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Posted by allornil

you address it now. you decide if its worth staying in the relationship and you seek counseling.

thissssssssss

angelatp Posted: Nov 08, 2010 04:25 PM

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I'm so sorry Amy is right you have to deal with it now.

Cataverri Posted: Nov 08, 2010 04:26 PM

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If your not 100% about this big step your taking, pls dont do it. Offer him professional help, if he is aware of his problems he will accept the help. However, if he is abusive you might want to stay as far as possible from someone like that.

MissingLI Posted: Nov 08, 2010 04:26 PM

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Posted by allornil

you address it now. you decide if its worth staying in the relationship and you seek counseling.

Um this. And don't tell yourself that it will change after you are married, because it probably won't. You also should think about bringing children into the mix and if his abuse will spill onto them. You have a lot to think about, I'm sorry.

MrsKon1111 Posted: Nov 08, 2010 04:26 PM

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i agree with all the above you deal with it now before it gets worse

try talking to him and if that doesnt help suggest counseling

good luck

amandamichael Posted: Nov 08, 2010 04:27 PM

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i watched my best friend destroy her life over this

please
pleaes pleaseee
dont do it

chris1082 Posted: Nov 08, 2010 04:31 PM

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I agree with what everyone said--if he won't go to counseling, then I would re-think this next HUGE step.

Sending good thoughts your way!

HopelessRomantic Posted: Nov 08, 2010 04:42 PM

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any couselor recommendations?

Notwedyet08 Posted: Nov 08, 2010 04:47 PM

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Hey; definitely adress it now. It might be a comminication issue on his side-that might be the only way he knows how to communicate?

But def. address it; and seek some help if you want to stay w/him.