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I'm that Crest Hollow Bride!!!!!!

kikipenz Posted:

I'm that Crest Hollow Bride!!!!!!

Hi everyone!!!!

I am that LIW bride that was married at Crest Hollow on July 3rd. This has definitely been a hot button issue and a very hot topic of conversation. First let me truly THANK EVERYONE who has been so supportive of me and my wedding day. It is truly comforting and reassuring to know How many people care.

First, I would like to share some facts publicly since this has become a 'public' issue. As soooooooo many of you out there know this wedding was NOT $55 pp (I wish it was, lol). My MIL is the nurse of the owner of Crest Hollow so I was fortunate and blessed enough to receive a discounted price. What would normally have been around $100pp was about $80 for me. I know some of you may be thinking that I should not even have to share that but it's o.k. I am a very open and honest person and don't mind sharing my details. We were given very VIP service and Crest Hollow took care of all my needs and BEYOND ( and my family's as well)...And of course, that is all that matters in the end. So to all Crest Hollow brides take heed! I NEVER, EVER ran into the other bride(s) and was never once aware that there was another wedding go on at all there!!

I had the most beautiful cocktail hour and there was SOOOOOOOO much food. I had requested a unique signature drink that requires special liquor ingredients and the wait staff and bartenders were serving it all night long. I can't believe they never ran out of the ingredients because so many people were drinking it throughout the night.

I had also added a Viennese hour and the desserts were amazing. There was so many desserts and so much food that I I have my fridge packed as I write this.

Also, there were so many 'little' details that I added to make my wedding the wedding of my dreams. I had a big tiki hut around my dias. I made cds for favors of summer party songs and wrapped it with raffia and shells. I made the place cards out of sand dollars. I had cameras at each table with a camera scavenger hunt that was also wrapped with raffia and shells. I had palm trees around the dance floor. And there were just SO many other things that helped to make my wedding perfect...


OK so to address the issue that has become at hand here with the poster Woodstock....

It is a shame that she was not able to TRULY appreciate being a guest at my wedding or for noticing the 'little'things that made my wedding so much fun and unique. I only say this because if she had then she wouldn't have cared about anything else enough to post it on a public forum that she is right, I do read!

I came across her posting this morning(maybe that can also end the mystery of who told me that hads also come about) and of course I went through many different emotions. At first I was shocked to see someone posting about my wedding, then hurt and then angry and then I calmed down. Please everyone understand that I am NOT at all hurt that she commented about the young waiter or even her food. I guess she was just really hungry and the food between the cocktail hour, salad and main course was not enough for her. Personally, I was too busy dancing, chatting and drinking to even notice!!!!

This is how I addressed the issue:
Like I said before I am a very open and honest person. I did not know the guest who wrote this about my wedding. She was the guest of someone my now MIL works with and I ad extended her an inviation out of consideration. I could have only addressed this issue through this forum but I wanted to talk person to person instead. Instead of publicly addressing her through the internet I called her fiance (with my MIL's permission) to address this issue with him since he was the reason she was even there in the first place. Understandably, it was a very awkward and sensitive issue to broach with him but I was able to do so in a very tactful and calm way. I did my best not to let any emotion get in the way. Long story short he had his fiancee (the poster) call me to extend her apologies and what she told me she didn't even know why she wrote that. She apologized profusely and asked how she could make it up. Then she told me she was going to add something on this board.

So that's the story for now girls!!!! How dramatic, huh? Well, I did have the most perfect wedding ever.... And it still is and always will be.... The people who matter to me had the best time of their lives... And that's what matters in the end.
Hugs and Kisses to all!!!!
Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted:

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I'm glad you posted this, even though you didn't have to. I saw your pictures, you looked beautiful and I'm glad you had a beautiful wedding.

I wish you and your new husband many years of happiness.
brooklynbridezilla Posted:

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You are one classy chick for handling that the way you did.

Congrats to you and your DH, and I hope to see you on LIF!
CLMon7906 Posted:

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eww...you only paid 100/person? it's not even a wedding unless you pay 200...j/k.



i am glad that you can look back and not be bitter. i think it sounded amazing even in the first post/thread. some people expect certain things and they don't know the half of it at all...that is wrong.

so very glad you had the wedding of your dreams and you are not a married woman!!!

congrats!


hmpena Posted:

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That is my sister... one classy person! Kudos to my sister for being a better person and posting this. I love you and was honored to be your MOH!
jantany26 Posted:

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Your wedding was beautiful and you were a gorgeous bride.
seta Posted:

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So sorry you had to go through this!!! So glad to hear you had a beautiful day!!!


Congratulations and best wishes!!!!
smara Posted:

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Good for you for confronting the issue. $55, $80 or $200 your wedding looked beautiful and like so much fun. And like u said the ppl who matter to you most had a great time. In the end you married to your hubby and thats what counts.

Congrats again!!
hmpena Posted:

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Just wanted to show you all how beautiful and classy my sister is!

mrswask Posted:

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Kristie - Jamie and I had a BLAST at the wedding!!

Love to you and Steve!!
Katie&Chris2006 Posted:

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Posted by brooklynbridezilla

You are one classy chick for handling that the way you did.

Congrats to you and your DH, and I hope to see you on LIF!



I totally agree!!!! You are clearly a great woman and I applaud you for handling this issue with such class.

From what I've seen and heard your wedding was beautiful!!!!! Congrats!
Beth1210 Posted:

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I saw your pics and thought the wedding looked great

congrats! enjoy this time!
ssdbk Posted:

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Sounds like you had a GREAT wedding!

I'd love to see the photos of all the touches that you put into it (like the tiki hut). Is it on your profile? I have to go back and look!

As I say so often on here--people have comments no matter what you do & that's why it's so important to just do what makes you happy!

And I also want to say that what goes around comes around!
JIFFY Posted:

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I have no idea what you are talking about. I didn't see any review about your wedding. However, from what you have posted it would seem that whatever transpired you kept calm, cool, and collective. Just like a real woman does! So- YOU GO GIRL!!! Don't be a hater be a participater!

Congrats!! to you and your new hubby!
stlmn2u Posted:

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Just wanted to say that I saw your wedding on Channel 12 News.....I thought it was great and you looked beautiful....So did your bridesmaids and MOH.....Congrats!!!
Happybride2005 Posted:

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u were on gorgeous bride. all the little details seem to make it a beautiful wedding

kathrynlinton Posted:

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It's a shame that you needed to come out and post this when you should be reveling in your newlywed bliss. I am sorry that this girl took it upon herself to say things that were inappropriate and rude.

I hope that you can forget about all of this silliness and enjoy your honeymoon or the just the next couple of days.

Good luck!!!
waterspout4 Posted:

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Congrats to you! I missed the original post, but you handled it with class!
CLMon7906 Posted:

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Posted by hmpena

Just wanted to show you all how beautiful and classy my sister is!




looks like a great time!!!
i102bcute Posted:

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GOOD!! I am glad you were the most happiest bride!!! I am also glad you addressed her. She was RUDE!!!

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