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I'm the one bride who GAINS weight before wedding

Original post by AllyDrew1108

I gained 13 lbs. I have been out of control. I'm so depressed. I went for my fitting and didn't even bother taking photos because I looked so awful. My mom made the seamstress attach little straps to hold up my huge chest (there's no cleavage though which is what I wanted) yet she said the first thing everyone will notice is my huge chest.

My dress just fit, meanwhile back in June it was two sizes too big and we were so excited that I had taken off some weight for the wedding.

How the heck can I drop 15 lbs by November 8? I was going to do no carbs starting today and already I had a WW egg sandwich. Only 4 points but carb city

UGH! I'm going to the gym, but can't get into it the way I was in the winter and spring.

Anyone else gaining or having trouble losing? I'm so depressed. I bought cute stuff for the Honeymoon that barely fits now.

Thanks for listening.
Your fatty-fat bride-to-be
jennarose023 Posted:

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Try south beach! i've lost 16 lbs in 2 months!!!

anneandchris Posted:

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YOu are not alone!!!!!!!!!!

futuremrsfab Posted:

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you are not the only bride- I have gained back what I lost in january! I am supposed to have my second fitting- but I called her and rescheduled it for next week and I need to lose at least 3-5 pounds between now & then

hang in there!
deb08 Posted:

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Don't feel bad I to had lost about 25 lbs and now I am terrified to get near the scale but I know its back and it brought along a few friends-- I have gone back to ww and hope that between now and my last fitting I can get ride of them.

Chin up lady
kslmbuggie Posted:

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you can definitely do it. drink lots of water, and chicken, fish, and vegetables are my best friends, they will help you out!

Maria31 Posted:

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You are NOT alone!! I'm right there with you. My dress zipped up perfectly and was big last year when I ordered it. It is, what it is.. you will be a beautiful bride no matter what!!!

bluekat16 Posted:

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You can totally do it!!!

I 've lost then gained then lost. Now I'm consistently going to the gym and making myself do kick *** workouts and have hired a trainer. I still need to get the eating under control, but that's coming along also.

Low-carb is great, but hard to do....especially in the beginning phase....but if you can stick to it you'll see great results.

I think by doing watching what you eat and increasing your exercise you'll see those 15 lbs go away..an you know what you may just lose inches but it's still great.
snowcutie82 Posted:

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don't get discouraged or give up cuz u still have plenty of time!!!

we have the 30 day shred and i like it. i used it more to get back into shape rather than for the inches/weight loss..but i could see a difference after doing it for 5 days straight in reference to being more toned regardless. u just have to make sure to do it every day and actually do it not wimp out : )

i stopped doing it everyday though. now if i feel like working out...i do 1 day of the tape, 1 day of just toning that i like and 1 day of cardio (elliptical)...and repeat. with 1 day of nothing.
SoVic08 Posted:

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ugh-my wedding is in 44 days. i need to lose 20 lbs i am the worse with trying to stick to this diet....bc of my current living conditions -i get discouraged annoyed to cook for myself and i just order out-

luckily this week i started walking 6x around the prk track and feel better. im just avoiding ALL carbs as much as i can
Randilotus Posted:

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Totally not alone. I was the biggest I have ever been the day of my wedding and guess what?!?!

I DIDN'T CARE... because it didn't matter that day. I still felt beautiful and I was the happiest I had ever been my whole life!
msflesch Posted:

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Don't beat yourself up!

Just start today - watch everything you eat.

Do low carb - eat a salad for lunch and just make yourself go to the gym 5X a week.

you CAN do it!!!!
msflesch Posted:

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Posted by Randilotus

Totally not alone. I was the biggest I have ever been the day of my wedding and guess what?!?!

I DIDN'T CARE... because it didn't matter that day. I still felt beautiful and I was the happiest I had ever been my whole life!



and you looked so beautiful.
i agree with Randilotus - the day of the wedding you will not care if you didn't lose the weight!!
Randilotus Posted:

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Posted by msflesch


Posted by Randilotus

Totally not alone. I was the biggest I have ever been the day of my wedding and guess what?!?!

I DIDN'T CARE... because it didn't matter that day. I still felt beautiful and I was the happiest I had ever been my whole life!



and you looked so beautiful.
i agree with Randilotus - the day of the wedding you will not care if you didn't lose the weight!!



Thanks chica but it is true.
MrsHtobe Posted:

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You can TOTALLY lose 15 pounds in 2 1/2 months.

Have you tried WW? Core is great!

And yes! I recommend that 30 day shred also!

I plan on trying to do it everyday, and then run for 30 minutes lol (I ordered down a size and only lost 11 pounds )
AllyDrew1108 Posted:

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Um big? You're a skinny chick - very lovely!


Posted by Randilotus

Totally not alone. I was the biggest I have ever been the day of my wedding and guess what?!?!

I DIDN'T CARE... because it didn't matter that day. I still felt beautiful and I was the happiest I had ever been my whole life!

Adriana618 Posted:

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I feel ya girl!!!
I really havent been on much of a wedding 'diet' this whole time... and now everything is snug and its freaking me out because my final fitting is on sat.
I wouldnt say i'm a big girl..i know i'm prob fine..but when your clothes start to get tight on you you cant help but notice and think about how ur going to fit into that dress!!!
gritardo Posted:

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be very careful with low carb - there are right and wrong ways to do it! you can try actual atkins or south beach but those don't play nice with working out, my officemate lost a ton of weight on atkins but wasn't allowed to exercise because your body needs carbs for workout energy. my boss, however, said that cutting out carbs at NIGHT worked well for her - so make lunchtime your last dose of carbs. then do what oprah does and make sure to have an early dinner so you're not eating ANYTHING after 7 pm!

i have personally found weight watchers to be AMAZING. especially if you try the wendie plan:
http://www.stormpc.com/ww/wendie_plan.htm

it's a way to mix up your metabolism WHILE on weight watchers, to break out of a slump... for those low-point days, might i add that progresso light's zero-point southwestern vegetable soup is AMAZING? make sure you get the one that says WW zero points, but man, those are the best zero points i've ever spent!

a friend of mine swears by cutting out soda, even diet soda. she also swears by HIIT (high intensity interval training) - lots of sources on the internet for it. my own fitness salvation has been http://www.bootcamprepublic.com but i think that's only in the city. bootcamp-style exercise classes give you results fast though.

you've definitely got time to make a difference in between now and your wedding. (c: best of luck!!!

~c~
Randilotus Posted:

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Posted by AllyDrew1108

Um big? You're a skinny chick - very lovely!


Posted by Randilotus

Totally not alone. I was the biggest I have ever been the day of my wedding and guess what?!?!

I DIDN'T CARE... because it didn't matter that day. I still felt beautiful and I was the happiest I had ever been my whole life!




I wasn't saying I am big girl. Just the biggest I have ever been. I went from bing a size 0 last summer to a size 8. Just saying I wasn't the size I was used to being the day I got married.
AllyDrew1108 Posted:

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Well regardless, you looked beautiful!


Posted by Randilotus


Posted by AllyDrew1108

Um big? You're a skinny chick - very lovely!


Posted by Randilotus

Totally not alone. I was the biggest I have ever been the day of my wedding and guess what?!?!

I DIDN'T CARE... because it didn't matter that day. I still felt beautiful and I was the happiest I had ever been my whole life!




I wasn't saying I am big girl. Just the biggest I have ever been. I went from bing a size 0 last summer to a size 8. Just saying I wasn't the size I was used to being the day I got married.

lyss0908 Posted:

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You are so not alone. I was convinced I wouldn't let myself be an overweight bride but here I am a month out and still overweight! I have given up on trying. I just depress myself more. I am who I am and FH loves me the way I am.

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