im turning 25 in a few weeks and im bummed aboout plans

MrsSoto Posted: Dec 22, 2009 02:15 PM

im turning 25 in a few weeks and im bummed aboout plans

I kept saying that this birthday, i wont do anything cuz we are so tight on money but now im down when i think about doing nothing for my birthday.
First im turning 25 (i want to party it up), and secondly i go out for other peoples bdays and spend a crp load of money on drinks, so i should do the same for mine.

then, theres the actually plans, i dont want a stuck up club with girls running around like prostitutes but i also want a place where we could really dance...and i dont mean, sway with a drink in our hand. so i guess a bar/club where theres a good amount of dancing/good music but also a chill crowd who are not all really young.

i guess im also down about going out cuz it seems like every time i get drunk, me and fh fight cuz he never gets drunk and then basically criticizes me for being drunk and acting crazy. w t f?

FutureMrsSoltan Posted: Dec 22, 2009 02:16 PM

Re: im turning 25 in a few weeks and im bummed aboout plans

awwww

ill go celebrate ur 25th with ya

little j Posted: Dec 22, 2009 02:17 PM

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aww girly relax for a second. go somewhere YOU LIKE going!!! where is a place you go and have FUN! whether its a late night restaurant, the movies then back to your place (drinks at home are cheaper!), maybe dave and busters for bowling, or a club in the city

just be happy chica!

flibbertigibbet Posted: Dec 22, 2009 02:20 PM

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Posted by FutureMrsSoltan

awwww

ill go celebrate ur 25th with ya

me too.

i did NOTHING on my 25th and was so pissed about it. make sure you go do SOMETHING.

Alyssa79 Posted: Dec 22, 2009 02:20 PM

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you need to go out and celebrate!! you're only 25 once and it's your last 'single' bday!

i'm also always tired of going out for everyone elses and spendng a sh*t load of $$ but i get SO shafted for mine

Rosalind_75 Posted: Dec 22, 2009 02:22 PM

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awwwww

live it up mama!!!
i know the feeling about doing things for others and then getting shiit on for 'your' special day.

sounds like a great excuse for a g2g bday bash!!!

you deserve to have a great time!!!
you only turn 25 once

MrsSoto Posted: Dec 22, 2009 02:23 PM

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i think part of it also is that i have a feeling that some people are gonna be thinking that since my bach party is 2 months after, why should they have to attend this? which is total bull cuz one should have nothing to do with another.

thank you guys. sorry im a bummer today

FutureMrsSoltan Posted: Dec 22, 2009 02:27 PM

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wow thats crappy if they think that way !!

One has absolutely nothing to do with the other

flibbertigibbet Posted: Dec 22, 2009 02:28 PM

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when is your birthday!?

ellie424 Posted: Dec 22, 2009 02:39 PM

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aww..definitely do something that you want to do! As the other girls said...you only turn 25 once!

I actually just turned 25 last week...and I had to study on my bday (had 2 finals). Was planning on celebrating over the weekend, but then we got snowed in. I wish I had a fun 25th...so def do what you want to do and have FUN!!!

TessMike621 Posted: Dec 22, 2009 02:42 PM

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i turned 25 in september...since it was warm, we had a pretty big party at my moms house in the yard....why don't you have something at your place or your moms and invite everyone over? get drunk and party it up with the ones you love!

Jenna_and_John Posted: Dec 22, 2009 02:47 PM

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I'm feeling a little bummed myself bc with the holidays everyone's always so busy around my bday. Two months or two days, your bachelorette party and birthday are two separate events!!