heres todays update: FH and I have started to move out of FMILs and into my fathers basement until we get on our feet and or find a home, which weve started to look for
apparently FMIL does not like the fact that were leaving mind you my stuff is half way out of there, ive bene getting it when there at work to avoid further confrontation
well--- drumroll please---- in an effort to hang out to what little controlt he control freak has left, she has changed the locks so i can not get the rest of my stuff and FH stuff out, until shes ready to be there with the key
i told FH she has til friday before i call the cops
do i have a leg to stand on with the cops? we werent paying rent? but shes holding my stuff ransom??
oh girls, when will this nightmare enddddddddddd
the craizer part is FSIL has left too, and shes in the same boat, but her bridal shower is saturday, this should be fun, wonder if FMIL is going to come...either way, i guess ill be drinking through the day
SoonToBeMrsFox
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this is terrible. i give you a lot of credit for dealing with this the way you are b/c i would have flipped on her by now. what does your fiance have to say about her behavior?
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wow I cant believe she changed the locks =( If you need help finding a house let me know Ill help you. Have you tried to talk to her just you and her to see what her problem is?
i talked yesterday, she screamed, i dont know how i stayed so calm, i just wanted to tell her off
i just told her i wanted my stuff and that we would talk about all of this in a few weeks- she didnt like that, she doesnt like anytrhing i say, she has it out for me bc ' ive taken her son away'
every see the movie monster in law? times that by 12 and your were i am in life
thank goodness i love this man a lot haha
OMG I Cant believe she is acting like that. Is it that she wanted him to live home until he got married?
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this is terrible. i give you a lot of credit for dealing with this the way you are b/c i would have flipped on her by now. what does your fiance have to say about her behavior?
its tough, im trying to behave, he knows shes crazy and he agrees
but ya know, deep down, thats his mom
how sad-- if my mother did this to him, id disown them....but then again, my family would neverrrrrrr
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CRAZY
smilesjc81
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that totally sucks. so sorry she is a crazy summa ma bit ch
it's hard cause for better or worse she family
maybe she really has like.. a mental illness
i can never understand stuff like this.
I mean she is married!! hello she married someone son!
hopefully things will get better - if not, well at least the FH
knows she is nuts. Has he tried to 'put her in her place' ?
rendel
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I am so sorry, you don't deserve all this stress and aggravation!!!!!!!!!!! It seems like she has a great deal of growing up to do!!!!!!!!!!
amandamichael
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that totally sucks. so sorry she is a crazy summa ma bit ch
it's hard cause for better or worse she family
maybe she really has like.. a mental illness
i can never understand stuff like this.
I mean she is married!! hello she married someone son!
hopefully things will get better - if not, well at least the FH
knows she is nuts. Has he tried to 'put her in her place' ?
do you really think you can put someone this crazy in her place? like shed acknowledge that she nuts'? \weve tried- no getting through to a person who belongs in a psych ward
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Im sorry you have to go through this! I thought my FMIL was queen of the Crazies- but it seems yours beats mine hands down! Just remember we all support you here!!
amandamichael
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Im sorry you have to go through this! I thought my FMIL was queen of the Crazies- but it seems yours beats mine hands down! Just remember we all support you here!!
thanks girls! id be crazy without you all today
chreesta
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OMG that is crazy!!!!
I'll say ALL LIW 2011ers GO AND GET UR STUFF TOGETHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BRIDE WAR!!!!!!!!
I'm down!
April_Luv
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She cant just change the lock like that-it against the law! if you were staying there for more than 30 days , collecting your mail there--she cant do that... Call the cops she will be in a crap load of trouble.
amandamichael
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even if i wasnt paying rent there?
April_Luv
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even if i wasnt paying rent there?
even if you wasnt paying rent!
Changing the locks on an resident's apartment without giving the resident a key would be a violation of the Unlawful Eviction Law (NYC Administrative Code §26-521) if: occupant who has lawfully lived in the apartment for more than thirty days (with or without the lease), A subtenant, roommate, or relative who has lived in the apartment for at least thirty days (even if the person is not on the lease and has not made any direct payments to the landlord),
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even if i wasnt paying rent there?
even if you wasnt paying rent!
Changing the locks on an resident's apartment without giving the resident a key would be a violation of the Unlawful Eviction Law (NYC Administrative Code §26-521) if: occupant who has lawfully lived in the apartment for more than thirty days (with or without the lease), A subtenant, roommate, or relative who has lived in the apartment for at least thirty days (even if the person is not on the lease and has not made any direct payments to the landlord),
GO GET EM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TAKE THAT BIOTCHHHHHHHHHH
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even if i wasnt paying rent there?
even if you wasnt paying rent!
Changing the locks on an resident's apartment without giving the resident a key would be a violation of the Unlawful Eviction Law (NYC Administrative Code §26-521) if: occupant who has lawfully lived in the apartment for more than thirty days (with or without the lease), A subtenant, roommate, or relative who has lived in the apartment for at least thirty days (even if the person is not on the lease and has not made any direct payments to the landlord),
GO GET EM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TAKE THAT BIOTCHHHHHHHHHH
Im telling you now you can turn around and be a B#tch!!!!! she is wrong
amandamichael
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even if i wasnt paying rent there?
even if you wasnt paying rent!
Changing the locks on an resident's apartment without giving the resident a key would be a violation of the Unlawful Eviction Law (NYC Administrative Code §26-521) if: occupant who has lawfully lived in the apartment for more than thirty days (with or without the lease), A subtenant, roommate, or relative who has lived in the apartment for at least thirty days (even if the person is not on the lease and has not made any direct payments to the landlord),
GO GET EM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TAKE THAT BIOTCHHHHHHHHHH
oh i love you girls! lets hope this threat gets me my stuff back
KrisCharl
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omg.. just omg
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That is absolutely INSANE!!! I don't even know what to say!!! Keep us posted and I really hope everything gets out of there and gets at least a little better!!!!
