in an effort to explain how crazy my life is

heres todays update:
FH and I have started to move out of FMILs and into my fathers basement until we get on our feet and or find a home, which weve started to look for

apparently FMIL does not like the fact that were leaving
mind you my stuff is half way out of there, ive bene getting it when there at work to avoid further confrontation

well--- drumroll please---- in an effort to hang out to what little controlt he control freak has left, she has changed the locks so i can not get the rest of my stuff and FH stuff out, until shes ready to be there with the key


i told FH she has til friday before i call the cops

do i have a leg to stand on with the cops? we werent paying rent? but shes holding my stuff ransom??

oh girls, when will this nightmare enddddddddddd

the craizer part is FSIL has left too, and shes in the same boat, but her bridal shower is saturday,
this should be fun, wonder if FMIL is going to come...either way, i guess ill be drinking through the day

Wow...crazy!
sorry you are going through this.

That's crazy! I'm so sorry you have to deal with her craziness! I don't know about the cops, I mean I bet they wouldn't break the door down or something. Any way you can sneakily call a locksmith and pretend like you accidentally locked yourself out? I mean if you had any kind of mail to that address proving you lived there or something, I'm not sure how locksmiths verify that a person lives in a place or not...

What a *****.

OMG that is crazy!!!!

I'll say ALL LIW 2011ers GO AND GET UR STUFF TOGETHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BRIDE WAR!!!!!!!!

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Posted by VCanizalez

OMG that is crazy!!!!

I'll say ALL LIW 2011ers GO AND GET UR STUFF TOGETHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BRIDE WAR!!!!!!!!

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wouldnt that be amazing<3--- i love you girls
i just dont know how to make this go away

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Posted by amandamichael

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Posted by VCanizalez

OMG that is crazy!!!!

I'll say ALL LIW 2011ers GO AND GET UR STUFF TOGETHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BRIDE WAR!!!!!!!!

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wouldnt that be amazing<3--- i love you girls
i just dont know how to make this go away

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Crazy and Fun =) I bet we could even come up in Newsday 'CRAZY BRIDES ATTACK!' LOL


But this is totally messed up, i dont understand why is she doing that!!!!

wow I cant believe she changed the locks =(
If you need help finding a house let me know Ill help you.
Have you tried to talk to her just you and her to see what her problem is?

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Posted by JennylovesStephen

wow I cant believe she changed the locks =(
If you need help finding a house let me know Ill help you.
Have you tried to talk to her just you and her to see what her problem is?

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yea no- shes crazy-- girls, im not kidding my mil is certifibly crazy- she needs help. not a joke

shes a control freak
FH is 31- 2 weeks ago at 1030 she told him to go to bed--- and she was serious--- shes just nuts
and since weve bene together she realizes control is over- and well, shes rebelling lol

Damn she needs some therapy. Doesnt she realize that by acting like a complete psycho, she's alienating her son?

Wow. Go with FH this week, rent a truck, move everything now. Seriously you dont want to go back there again.

i feel for you, and i feel so bad for your FSIL! this is her mother who is doing this as well! i don't envy you going to that bridal shower.
however, you are certainly within your rights to call the cops and ask them to escort you or meet you there since your stuff is not legally being returned to you.
has FH tried talking to her to obtain your stuff together? have you all agreed on when you can pick up the rest of your stuff together? at this point, i would just make one trip with a huge truck, get everything out of there and never have to go back.
is she even talking to you? or FH?

i've heard of crazy, but this woman takes the cake!

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Posted by JennylovesStephen

wow I cant believe she changed the locks =(
If you need help finding a house let me know Ill help you.
Have you tried to talk to her just you and her to see what her problem is?

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i talked yesterday, she screamed, i dont know how i stayed so calm, i just wanted to tell her off

i just told her i wanted my stuff and that we would talk about all of this in a few weeks- she didnt like that, she doesnt like anytrhing i say, she has it out for me bc ' ive taken her son away'

every see the movie monster in law? times that by 12 and your were i am in life

thank goodness i love this man a lot haha

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Posted by allornil

Damn she needs some therapy. Doesnt she realize that by acting like a complete psycho, she's alienating her son?

Wow. Go with FH this week, rent a truck, move everything now. Seriously you dont want to go back there again.

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i told her that last night- she told me 'fck you, hell always be my son' and i said your right he will, but in 7 months hes my husband, and in case you havent realized, by doing this to him, youve forced him to choose, and well, hes here with me, so doesnt that show you, that the only one that looses here is you'

and she yelled some more--- no getting through


yea my dad owns big box trucks, and i got boxes from the moving co already--- i justneed to be let it so i can get everything out!!
ughhhhhhhhhhhh
the insanity


girls my stress level is so high ic ant even stand it anymore

on a good note, my only good note---fh and i havent had an argueement since we left on saturday
and we were fighting like 7x's a day because of her

i know this is all worth it, its just surviivng this that seems imposible right onw

i just wnat my stuff, so i can completely walk away from this

:(

all my clothes- all my jewelry and 80% of FH stuff
i cant leave it there

its thousands of dollars of clothes and shoes

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Posted by amandamichael

all my clothes- all my jewelry and 80% of FH stuff
i cant leave it there

its thousands of dollars of clothes and shoes

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= SUPER essential! Ugh I second take the police with you as witnesses

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Posted by allornil

Damn she needs some therapy. Doesnt she realize that by acting like a complete psycho, she's alienating her son?

Wow. Go with FH this week, rent a truck, move everything now. Seriously you dont want to go back there again.

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i told her that last night- she told me 'fck you, hell always be my son' and i said your right he will, but in 7 months hes my husband, and in case you havent realized, by doing this to him, youve forced him to choose, and well, hes here with me, so doesnt that show you, that the only one that looses here is you'

and she yelled some more--- no getting through


yea my dad owns big box trucks, and i got boxes from the moving co already--- i justneed to be let it so i can get everything out!!
ughhhhhhhhhhhh
the insanity


girls my stress level is so high ic ant even stand it anymore

on a good note, my only good note---fh and i havent had an argueement since we left on saturday
and we were fighting like 7x's a day because of her

i know this is all worth it, its just surviivng this that seems imposible right onw

i just wnat my stuff, so i can completely walk away from this

:(

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What kind of mother does this? Seriously? Its freaking scary. And it's demented.

I wonder what i did to deserve this craziness-- really
like what did i do to deserve this?

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Posted by allornil

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Posted by amandamichael

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Posted by allornil

Damn she needs some therapy. Doesnt she realize that by acting like a complete psycho, she's alienating her son?

Wow. Go with FH this week, rent a truck, move everything now. Seriously you dont want to go back there again.

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i told her that last night- she told me 'fck you, hell always be my son' and i said your right he will, but in 7 months hes my husband, and in case you havent realized, by doing this to him, youve forced him to choose, and well, hes here with me, so doesnt that show you, that the only one that looses here is you'

and she yelled some more--- no getting through


yea my dad owns big box trucks, and i got boxes from the moving co already--- i justneed to be let it so i can get everything out!!
ughhhhhhhhhhhh
the insanity


girls my stress level is so high ic ant even stand it anymore

on a good note, my only good note---fh and i havent had an argueement since we left on saturday
and we were fighting like 7x's a day because of her

i know this is all worth it, its just surviivng this that seems imposible right onw

i just wnat my stuff, so i can completely walk away from this

:(

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What kind of mother does this? Seriously? Its freaking scary. And it's demented.

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Wow, I'm so sorry you have to deal with this monster from the evil depths of hell.



praying that you get your stuff and get the hell out of dodge!