Infidelity

FI and I totally agree on this - physical intimacy with someone else is cheating and it will not be forgiven.

As for swinging, I could never do that but I have met some swingers. There was some convention in Negril in the summer of 2002 when I was in town for a wedding. Boy was that a strange experience. Very aggressive women approached me and my friend (she was attending the wedding too) several times trying to 'convert' us I guess. To each his own but I think that 'lifestyle' can only help expose any failing in the marriage.

If my FH so barely touched another chick in that way...he would get his *** chopped off.

Of course I think it's cheating. One of our friends moved to florida and began swinging with his fiance and another couple. well it aws this whole big drama and now the other couple is gettin divorced and my friends fiance is lving with the other guy and vice versa.
its a big mess!
DONT SWING
lol

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Posted by Gailita

No way, we would definitely have PROBLEMS because i wouldn't stand for that. We both know how each other would feel about cheating. That is a big deal breaker. If we are having problems we should be able to discuss it, not taking drastic measures like that.

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I agree.

Once someone cheats the relationship is never the same IMO.

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Posted by ckgmwedding

I think people will say just about anything to justify their behavior. That being said, if I cheated on my FH he would never speak to me again and vice versa. Trust to me is everything- doing anything intimate with other parties erodes that trust.

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I totally agree. I think it would break my heart knowing that I hurt him if I ever cheated. I just can't see myself doing that ever. I strongly believe in those vows we'll be saying on Oct. 8

Swinging is cheating!
Cheating is unacceptable!
Complete deal-breaker! I'm not even interested in hearing an excuse!