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Instead of favors....

Melimaup Posted:

Instead of favors....

are any of you making donations to American Cancer Society/American Heart Association etc.? My moms pushing this idea...What do you guys think????

billandme Posted:

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I personally think its an amazing thing to do! I know a lot of brides are doign donation favors! I LOVE the idea!
Aug07OFCbride Posted:

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i love this idea, my sister did it for my father who passed from brain cancer.. so she did a donation to the national brain tumor foundation in leu of favors. instead they decided to make cds of some of their wedding songs and passed them out at RD.

shelby34 Posted:

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I love the idea....we are doing a donation to the Autism Society. I just feel like my money would be going to better use that way.

gaccrrm Posted:

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I love the idea! That is what I wanted to do until my mom made me feel like people would think that we would pocket the money. The weird thing is my mom has cancer and is currently going through treatment and my dad died of cancer when I was 4. I figured this would be the best way to honor him. I guess not.
billandme Posted:

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Posted by shelby34

I love the idea....we are doing a donation to the Autism Society. I just feel like my money would be going to better use that way.



That's so amazing of you!!!! MY little nephew is Autistic........I support them in any way that I can!!!!
jaiese Posted:

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Posted by Melimaup

are any of you making donations to American Cancer Society/American Heart Association etc.? My moms pushing this idea...What do you guys think????



Definitely. We're doing ACS and a veterans organization since FH was in the army.
I think it's a nice gesture.
PattyK Posted:

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I think that it is a great idea!!!!!!!!!!!!!

diva7531 Posted:

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IT was a thought for us but I think FH wanted to remember his dad in a different way. I think it's a great idea!!!

missalissa Posted:

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I think that I am doing a donation instead of favors...everyone i talk to really likes the idea.

also, my calligrapher said she can do like a cute scroll with a gold or silver band closing it, and on the scroll it can read what the donation is for etc...so it is still aesthetically pleasing
lisaslove Posted:

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i think that is a great idea

portjeffbride Posted:

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I'm all for it... you can also donate by registering through weddingchannel.com... Then, everytime someone goes through your wedding site and purchases from your registry, a donation is made to the charity of your choice...

I selected St. Jude's Childrens hospital... no charity more worthy than one fighting childhood cancer.....
Soon2bMrsI Posted:

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We are donating to the american lyme disease in honor of my FIL. He died over 2 yrs ago from it.

qtdimps23 Posted:

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im donating to breast cancer. i love the donation idea

NY031978 Posted:

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i tihink its a nice idea...however if i was too do that id still give something else...a lil edible treat to go along with it!!!

portjeffbride Posted:

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Posted by Soon2bMrsI

We are donating to the american lyme disease in honor of my FIL. He died over 2 yrs ago from it.



ohmigod.... that poor man.
D's Girl Posted:

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I am donating to both of those charities. My Father passed away due to Cancer and my FFIL from Heart complications.

D's Girl Posted:

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Posted by Soon2BMrsMunzGunz

I love the idea! That is what I wanted to do until my mom made me feel like people would think that we would pocket the money. The weird thing is my mom has cancer and is currently going through treatment and my dad died of cancer when I was 4. I figured this would be the best way to honor him. I guess not.



I would really hope that people would not think that and don't let that be the reason for not doing something you believe in.
Melimaup Posted:

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Thank you so much for all your awesome opinions!!!!!!!!I think I'm going to donate to American Heart Association in memory of my father who passed away....I wanna have a calligrapher write it on a board and then frame it and put it where everyone picks up their placecards...any referrals for a calligrapher?!

PattyK Posted:

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Posted by Melimaup

Thank you so much for all your awesome opinions!!!!!!!!I think I'm going to donate to American Heart Association in memory of my father who passed away....I wanna have a calligrapher write it on a board and then frame it and put it where everyone picks up their placecards...any referrals for a calligrapher?!



I think that my friend still does calligraphy. I will check with her and let you know. If she doesn't she may know someone.

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