Invitation HELP needed ASAP!!

Ladies! I'm in need of your help before I say screw everything!! LOL
I'm filling out the final form for the invitiatons so FH can bring it to work tomorrow. Soo... The wording on the invitations are killing me. I would rather have the invite say 'the parents' rather then having his parents name and my mom's name. I mean, WE are the ones paying for most of the wedding...so we'll STILL include them with 'parents' but will it be considered rude to them???

Also, this is my MAJOR problem... can I even DO 'parents' since my Father passed away? It would be my Mom and FH parents. Can I still do 'parents' or is that just wrong...? AUGH!

Also, if I DO include the names... how do I do it...? FH has the same exact name as his Father...so it'll be weird...like this:
Mrs Joan Smith and Mr. & Mrs. Robert Bryan Joanes present their children Jane Lynn and Robert Bryan..... Do I put JR there...?? Just sounds funny.

PLEASE HELP!!

OK FIRST TAKE A DEEP BREATH LOL

THE WAY I DID IT WAS TOGETHER WITH OUR PARENTS BECAUSE WE ARE PAYING FOR MOST OF IT ALSO BUT MY PARENTS AND HIS MOM ARE HELPING US. AS FAR AS YOUR DAD I WOULD STILL SAY PARENTS BECAUSE EVEN THOUGH YOUR DAD IS NOT HERE ANYMORE YOUR PARENTS ARE STILL YOUR PARENTS AND IT NECCESARRILY DOESNT MEAN YOU ARE INCLUDING YOUR DAD IN THE PARENTS ......IDK IF THAT MADE ANY SENSE BUT GOOD LUCK HAHAHA

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Posted by Dani777

Ladies! I'm in need of your help before I say screw everything!! LOL
I'm filling out the final form for the invitiatons so FH can bring it to work tomorrow. Soo... The wording on the invitations are killing me. I would rather have the invite say 'the parents' rather then having his parents name and my mom's name. I mean, WE are the ones paying for most of the wedding...so we'll STILL include them with 'parents' but will it be considered rude to them???

Also, this is my MAJOR problem... can I even DO 'parents' since my Father passed away? It would be my Mom and FH parents. Can I still do 'parents' or is that just wrong...? AUGH!

Also, if I DO include the names... how do I do it...? FH has the same exact name as his Father...so it'll be weird...like this:
Mrs Joan Smith and Mr. & Mrs. Robert Bryan Joanes present their children Jane Lynn and Robert Bryan..... Do I put JR there...?? Just sounds funny.

PLEASE HELP!!

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You could put together with their parents absolutely.

If you decide to put their names make sure your FH is definitely a JR & not the third. Is his grandfathers name the same too? Then he is the third. Only if its staed on the birth certificate. So make sure first or you can just put Mr. & Mrs. Robert Joanes (dont use the middle name) Onlyuse the middle name for FH.

HTH

Awww girls...YOU ROCK!
So I'm putting parents...whew...that saves me TON of stress! I was just looking at all the optins, and I was like, I JUST DON'T KNOW!! LOL


THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!