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Invitation wording nightmare

lgab21 Posted:

Invitation wording nightmare

Stuck in the middle trying to figure out wording on invitations. Trying to please everyone didn't work like I thought it would. My mom wants their names on top because they are the brides parents. His mom wants their names to not be put on the bottom as an after thought. Help!! What did everyone else do? My parents are paying for lets say about 50%. We are paying 25% and his are paying 25%. How would you word it?

danielle1211 Posted:

Re: Invitation wording nightmare

We did:
Robert Emmett and Danielle Elizabeth
Together with their parents
Mr. and Mrs. Smith (Bride's parents)
and
Mr. and Mrs. Jones (Groom's parents)
so on and so on.......
LKatz1029 Posted:

Re: Invitation wording nightmare


Posted by danielle1211

We did:
Robert Emmett and Danielle Elizabeth
Together with their parents
Mr. and Mrs. Smith (Bride's parents)
and
Mr. and Mrs. Jones (Groom's parents)
so on and so on.......



u should totally do this then
FutureMrsPanuch Posted:

Re: Invitation wording nightmare

we had pretty much the same thing except we are paying for 60% and the other 40 was split between my mom and his parents. My mom wanted her name on top, and we didnt want to leave his parents out so we just did

Ms So and So
and
Mr and Mrs so and so
request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their children....

this way we pleased both sides.
b2b2013 Posted:

Re: Invitation wording nightmare

We are paying for the whole thing, but I wanted my invitations to be traditional so we are putting both of our parent's names on the invites. I agree with the other ladies above on the wording
lgab21 Posted:

Re: Invitation wording nightmare

Thanks that helps a lot.

IrishAli Posted:

Re: Invitation wording nightmare


Posted by FutureMrsPanuch

we had pretty much the same thing except we are paying for 60% and the other 40 was split between my mom and his parents. My mom wanted her name on top, and we didnt want to leave his parents out so we just did

Ms So and So
and
Mr and Mrs so and so
request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their children....

this way we pleased both sides.



We did it this way with both sets of parents at the top
FutureMrsCat050412 Posted:

Re: Invitation wording nightmare


Posted by danielle1211

We did:
Robert Emmett and Danielle Elizabeth
Together with their parents
Mr. and Mrs. Smith (Bride's parents)
and
Mr. and Mrs. Jones (Groom's parents)
so on and so on.......



this is what we did
ourwedding9510 Posted:

Re: Invitation wording nightmare

The payment for the wedding was pretty much like yours. Traditionally the brides parents ALWAYS go first, on invites, walking down the aisle (mom), intro to the reception...

We did:
Jane Mary
daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John Doe
request your presence when she marries
Michael Nicholas
Son of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Smith
kfizz Posted:

Re: Invitation wording nightmare

since your parents are paying for the majority of the cost I would suggest doing what I did (I was in a similar situation as you were)

because you have shared in their lives
by your friendship and love
Mr. & Mrs. (Brides parents)
request the honour of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Kristen Ashley H
to
Arthur William P
son of Mr. & Mrs. (Grooms parents)

(then all of the church and reception information followed)

chliekm Posted:

Re: Invitation wording nightmare


Posted by kfizz

since your parents are paying for the majority of the cost I would suggest doing what I did (I was in a similar situation as you were)

because you have shared in their lives
by your friendship and love
Mr. & Mrs. (Brides parents)
request the honour of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Kristen Ashley H
to
Arthur William P
son of Mr. & Mrs. (Grooms parents)

(then all of the church and reception information followed)




I like this way!! I'm in the same boat..so I think we are going to go traditional way with my parents first.

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