I am trying to think of ways to word the invitation
So FH parents are still married, my mom is re-married and my dad is engaged. My dad and his fiance are the only ones contributing financially to the wedding. FH and I are paying for 90% of it ourselves. So here is the question....how would I word the invitation..
I found this yesterday: but I think you worded it just fine:
When the bride and groom are paying for the wedding themselves, the wording should read: EITHER You are cordially invited to celebrate the wedding of Anne Catherine Myers and Theodore Joseph Johnson etc.
OR
Together with their parents, Anne Catherine Myers and Theodore Joseph Johnson request the honor of your presence etc.
Brides parents are divorced: either Issued by the parent who raised her Ms. Janet Myers requests the honor of your presence at the wedding of her daughter Anne Catherine etc.
or
Divorced parents are hosting the wedding together Mr. Christopher Myers and Ms. Janet Myers request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter Anne Catherine
Divorced parent and new stepparent are hosting the wedding: Mr. and Mrs. Marc Velez request the honor of your presence at the marriage of Mrs. Velez's daughter Anne Catherine Myers etc.
Child of divorced and remarried parents both hosting the wedding Mr. and Mrs. Christopher Myers and Mr. and Mrs. Marc Velez request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter Anne Catherine etc.
OR
Mr. and Mrs. Christopher Myers and Mr. and Mrs. Marc Velez request the honor of your presence at the marriage of the daughter of Mr. Myers and Mrs. Velez Anne Catherine to etc.