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Invite addressing ?

CristinanBen2010 Posted:

Invite addressing ?

If someone is engaged do you add the fiances full name or is it still and guest???

DaniandKen2010 Posted:

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Full name. IMO it should never read and guest if you know their guests name.

Jna2010 Posted:

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i think that regardless of if engaged or not if you know the persons significant other you should write the whole name

christine2010 Posted:

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Posted by Jna2010

i think that regardless of if engaged or not if you know the persons significant other you should write the whole name



ITA.
FH & I get very offended when anyone we know for a long time refers to us as '& Guest' on an invitations. We actually refused to go to an e-party when someone addressed an invite to me & referred to FH as '& Guest.'
jmgoncal Posted:

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Definitely full name.

MrsC2010 Posted:

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Posted by Jna2010

i think that regardless of if engaged or not if you know the persons significant other you should write the whole name



ITA
JBC12510 Posted:

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full name!

CristinanBen2010 Posted:

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Thank you!!! glad i checked... I always get and guest on invites for fh and I
SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

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Full name

Rosalind_75 Posted:

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Posted by Jna2010

i think that regardless of if engaged or not if you know the persons significant other you should write the whole name



WORD
StaceyWill Posted:

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Posted by DaniandKen2010

Full name. IMO it should never read and guest if you know their guests name.



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Lsorrent Posted:

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Posted by Jna2010

i think that regardless of if engaged or not if you know the persons significant other you should write the whole name



I agree. I actually sent out an invite to someone 'and guest' because I didn't know the guests full name. The problem was, when I got my invites done, they were just dating. When I mailed them, they had just gotten engaged! I wrote her a FB message apologizing profusely for the 'and guest.'
rdubs Posted:

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I always thought '+ guest' was for when couple didn't live together. I used to be '+1' before we moved in and I wasn't offended.

We are doing '+ guest's name' for everyone with significant others b/c we don't want to give people the option that if they break up, they can bring someone else! It's that person or nothing!
JenBill61210 Posted:

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I guess it depends on the situation... like w/ me my cousin had a boyfriend then broke up with him. so i didnt bother to ask what his last name was.... i addressed her invite to 'and guest' and now i found out they got back together and got engaged! oh well...

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