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Invite Etiquette...And Family???

JessesGirl Posted:

Invite Etiquette...And Family???

So I tried looking this up online and got conflicting answers. We are not inviting any children to the wedding, except FH's Uncle and Aunt with their 3 older boys ( one is 20, 17, and 15). I know the 20 yr old is supposed to get his own invite but im thinking its ok not to since he's still in college and they all live under the same roof right? Also, which way of addressing their envelope is correct? Keep in mind we have an inner envelope that we are leaving blank so everything has to be written on the outer....

A) Mr. and Mrs. Robert Smith and family

B) Mr. and Mrs. Robert Smith
Johnathan, Marc, and Scott

C) The Smith Family

jrzygrl Posted:

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oops duplicated post.

jrzygrl Posted:

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wow I'm bad at this tonight....

okay so since my original answer didn't post long story short! (B)

parents names mr. and mrs.
and then the children oldest to youngest and the last name HTH
JessesGirl Posted:

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Thanks for responding Tammy but I cant see your answer
mrsjpc3 Posted:

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Mr. and Mrs. Robert Smith
Johnathan, Marc, and Scott

- i also didnt invite a 20 yr old with a date. he is in college, lives at home and does not have a GF. dont worry
JessesGirl Posted:

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Posted by eleven29bride

Mr. and Mrs. Robert Smith
Johnathan, Marc, and Scott

- i also didnt invite a 20 yr old with a date. he is in college, lives at home and does not have a GF. dont worry



Awesome!!! Thanks, I feel better about it now. I feel like nowadays, your still a kid when your in college, I know i was! lol
lizzie217 Posted:

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Posted by eleven29bride

Mr. and Mrs. Robert Smith
Johnathan, Marc, and Scott

- i also didnt invite a 20 yr old with a date. he is in college, lives at home and does not have a GF. dont worry



Agreed ...
bigrd37 Posted:

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we didn't invite FH's cousins, two are 17 and one is 21, with dates. we added their full name to the invites under the parents, in order of age.

kayemmbee Posted:

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I believe A is correct

Mici n KC Posted:

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Posted by bigrd37

we didn't invite FH's cousins, two are 17 and one is 21, with dates. we added their full name to the invites under the parents, in order of age.


This is correct.
JessesGirl Posted:

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Full names meaning first and last...so like this?

Mr. and Mrs. Robert Smith
Johnathan, Marc and Scott Smith ??
mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

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I would think either the first or third wordings sounds the best.

jennarose023 Posted:

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I just did 'The Smith Family' for any family over 3 people that all lived in the same house! so much easier and less invites too! It seems silly to send 4 invites to 1 house!

snowcutie82 Posted:

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Posted by JessesGirl

Full names meaning first and last...so like this?

Mr. and Mrs. Robert Smith
Johnathan, Marc and Scott Smith ??



i had outer and inners so i addressed the outside to the smith family and did mrs and mrs smith, then the kids first names on the next time in order of age...since ure leaving the inner blank...either what u wrote above or just smith family. i think theyll get it
Future Mulligan Posted:

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i have cousins who live at home - one is in college and the other is a college grad so i planned on addressing like them like this:

Mr. and Mrs. Smith
Mr. Joe Smith
Mr. John Smith

kslmbuggie Posted:

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I did 'and family' there was no way I was wasting postage and the $$ I paid for the invite sending multiple invites to the same household.

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