There are a couple of people that I am inviting from my job of course my little 'gossip crew' but there is one girl that only works in the office 2x a week but when she is here she is always asking how the planning is going. We talk about the wedding but thats really it . She is close to one of the girls in my 'gossip crew' ...Do I invite her??
pa56
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If it's just one more person, then I would say yes. That's what I did. I am friends with 3 girls from work. We don't work together but we socialize together. About 6 months ago, a new girl joined their group. I hang out with the new girl when I see the other 3 girls but I don't know her all too well. I felt it would be an obvious exclusion if I didn't invite her and it would make socializing awkward, so I invited her. I didn't invite her with a guest, since I sat her with her 3 coworkers.
AdriandSteve
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I think if she only works there 2x's a week it's not necessary unless you want her there
caligirl87
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It's completely up to you, but if it would strain your working relationship after you get married... then I would think the little bit of extra money would be worth it.
Jna2010
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Posted by AdriandSteve
I think if she only works there 2x's a week it's not necessary unless you want her there
ITA, you can get really carried away with the guest list like this!
LaurenJosh
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Would you feel awkward working with her after the wedding if you didn't invite her? If so, then I say just invite her. One more doesn't make too much a difference. Good luck
Kiki1103
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I think that if she is now in your group of work friends that you should just invite her. I wouldn't want an awkward situation at work.
QUIA
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SInce she only works there 2x a week I say it all up to you.. you may feel weird if you dont.. esp when everyone else is going and she does socialize with the 'gossip group'
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I agree... however will this lead to other people being upset who have worked there longer? FH and I work together and we were concerned about this so we only invited a small group (2/3 ppl) we are very close with... once we ventured outside these ppl it became scary due to the 'groups' and associations due to time etc...
exoticbride2B
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Do you guys think it would be rude to invite a co-worker that you kind of have to invite w/out a guest??
I have a few work friends that I am close to that have boyfriends, that I would say ok to invite a guest.
Then there a few people in my department that I kind of have to invite but would it be rude to invite them alone w/out a guest?
Celeste617
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If you want her there, go ahead and invite her! With regards to alone or with a guest, I think it's best to invite people with a guest if they are married or in a serious relationship. Otherwise, for those singles or newly dating, they can come solo.
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I think that it is up to u. I would juste because it is one more person and it would make u feels better in the long run.
SummerBride10
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I would look at it this way: Would you expect to be invited to her wedding? If the answer is yes, then invite her. If not, then I dont see a reason to invite her!
