I have 2 jobs so I can't invite invite everyone from both.
I'm inviting about 7 people from one job (About 5 others are coming but working it so same thing) and 0 from my 9-5. They are nice and all but i don't talk to them once I leave work.
FH is inviting about 10 of his co-workers
Iluvpoodles
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Well, I've been at my place for a few years but am not close with anyone. My company is huge but my immediate group is small. My boss and I don't talk to one another on a personal level and he still hasn't congratulated me on being engaged so yea he def WON'T be invited. The rest of my group is guys all of whom I don't talk to except for hi and bye. There's 3 girls. One has pretended she doesn't know I'm engaged and the other two I talk to on occasion. They ask me about the wedding all the time but we don't hang outside of work or talk every day. Plus, I don't go to work related events lol. There's another older lady who since I got engaged has become friendlier with me. She gave me a guest book so I'm not sure if I should invite those 3 or just not invite anyone.
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I dont think it is if anyone ask just say its family and close friends they will understand wedding cost alot Im not inviting any of my co-workers Fh invited about 6 to the e-party so we will have them at the wedding but thats it!
01ELLIE
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i am only inviting the co-workers that have actually become by friends...people that i would see outside of work related events...other than that i cant afford to invite more
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Posted by Ivansgirl
No not at all . .. I would just be careful. For example I am a math teacher. I am friends with the majority of my department. At that point it is an all or nothing. I am inviting my entire departmen even the new teacher this year. I would feel rude otherwise. So if you dediced to invite one or two close people that is fine....just don't invite everyone but a few people.
took the words right outta my mouth! ITA
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I've been thinking about this for a while & this is what FH & I came up with.
Engagement party: Bridal Party, close family & friends
Wedding: Since I work in a small office, I am inviting everyone & FH is inviting everyone from his work ( He is FDNY & has a small engine company so its not a lot of ppl). But I am currently trying to find a new job & if that works out before the invitations go out ( ) I probably will still invite only a few (like 2 or 3) from my current job & no one from my new one.
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I have my core list of people from work that I will be inviting: my two bosses, the other girl who works directly in my office with me (we hang outside of work, go to concerts together, etc.), one manager (who FH and I also hang with outside of work), and one manager who works in our NJ office who I absolutely adore and work with all day, everyday. Plus their spouses/partners/guests. That's it; if they all come then it'll be a nice round number of 10 total, with guests.
MrsHazel2B
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Just family and close friends sounds like the plan..thanks!
mrsdraskin2009
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I'm inviting the handful of coworkers I am close with. At my old job, I'm only inviting a few.
nessamel
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The rule of thumb is all or none. I'm inviting people from my workplace and I work with 8 people closely and about 20 in the office. I personally don't care, I have a right to share my special day with the people I want there but not the people who i added so it would not look bad.
latinaj
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we met at work and are very lucky to work w/a great bunch.. so we're inviting a bunch on them..
there is 1 person who i cannot stand though and i'm not too good at being phony...fh thinks we should invite them though bc everyone else will be.... oh and we're real good friends w/their SO
