Ok so my best friend who is my MOH and I are really close. Love ehr to death-my sister from another mother and all that. But her husband? OYE...He is one of those people who's TOTALLY self-absorbed; the kind who cuts you off mid convo if you ar speaking to his wife because he MUST talk to her at that exact moment (Does it ALL The time, not just emergencies) or when you are sitting at dinner, will knock over your sushi platter because he just MUST do work with his laptop at the table, nevermind that you told him he didnt need to come out that night if he was busy. The kind who with every wedding vendor they have dealt with, he has haggled, threatened and haggled more, trying to get them down low which we ALL do but its the WAY he does it. Like he expects them to kiss his A$$ for whatever pennies he throws their way then he BRAGS about how he did it...
And this gem...is amrrying my best friend. Well publically now. They did a secret wedding 2 years ago. ANyway, this is my newest gripe...
Our wedding starts at 11:30 am and we start taking pics at 8am. So since I live in NJ and she lives in New Rochelle nY, I aked her and the rest of my BP to stay the night in a hotel I AM paying for day before so we dont have to worry about anyone gettign trapped over the GW with traffic. SO when he found out, he whined about it to her, then to me and Pete in front of her. And all because he has to be without her for ONE NIGHT BECAUSE OF HER BEST FRIEND'S WEDDING! Best part? CALL ME UP ALST NIGHT and tells me he thinks I am being selfish!!!!!!!!!
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Deep breaths folks. ANyone know a cool language to count back from 20 in?
aprilv
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I can't stand men like this. I have a similar situation with a friend and she is usually very strong and opinionated-but with him she doesn't tell him to SHUT THE F UP!!!! Just be glad it's not you with him and stick to your guns. It's one freakin day. Or be prepared that she might be late b/c I always find that somehow my friend always does what he wants anydamn way. Good Luck!!!
LuckyMe
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What is your BF take on this? I know people who are like this so I sympathize.
PeteysBride
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She said she is coming of course but I can see the stress-when she is upset lol she gets VERY calm.
DrWho
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Tell him to pull up his big-boy pants and deal. You'd do it for 'his' big day. (And you know that's how he's thinking about it.)
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He needs to grow up! I cannot stand men like this.
I have to give kudos to your MOH though for dealing with that. I don't know how I would be able to do it. Tell yourself this--thank God it's not you with this guy!
I know my spelling italiano is a disaster...lol! Haven't been to Malta in ages and need a refresher course!
What an Ahole he is!
LMAO thanks! That helps. I need to elarn to count in germa. Its a very throaty language. I can count at this jerkwad next time he starts up!
Kara and Todd
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I'm sorry this jerk is putting you and his fiance through this. He needs to grow up.
Nirvin
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You should have torn him a new a-hole! Idiot!
Irishny8
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ARE YOU KIDDING ME!?!?! Does your friend get annoyed by him? Does she know that he called you to tell you off? How are you being selfish? You are paying for the room! He needs to be stopped!
LitBallerinaGirl
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YIKES... So sad hearing stories like that!
Butterfly123
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He sounds like a real peace of work. Hes the selfish bast ard here
ChristineAaron08
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Tell him its ONE night and if he can't deal with it, then TS, Grow the he!! up dude. Ughh, I hate people like him. Get over yourself Mr.! You shold talk to him and put him in his place.
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The best part ladies, is that HE goes out all the time with HIS friends, stays out most of the nigth which she has complained to me about and wont call and then he's mad of one night MIND YOU he is goign to Las Vegas for his Bachlerotett party!
And did I mention this mature man is 36!
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I HAD a friend who has a boyfriend like this. It just became too difficult to deal with. Especially when he started to control her life, friends, etc. and she went along with it. Unfortunately, our friendship was ruined b/c of it. I hope you have a happier ending!!
