Is anybody else weirdly calm....

autumnbride10 Posted: Sep 04, 2008 05:01 PM

Is anybody else weirdly calm....

At three months I was like and soooooo stressed out. I was FREAKING OUT that nothing would get done. Then two months I was not sleeping...nightmares...mind racing.
Now it's like a weird calm. Don't get me wrong, I still have 1000 things to do...especially the DIY's which take time...so what's up with this? Will it be like this to the end, or is there more stress to come?

emomma17 Posted: Sep 04, 2008 05:05 PM

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People are saying that I am calm, but I feel a little crazed but nothing like I imagined. I think it is because i was a nervous nelly and an eager to get everything done way in advance so at this stage I wasn't running around like a crazy person.

pa56 Posted: Sep 04, 2008 05:42 PM

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I think for me the bulk of my stress will be the 3 or 4 days before the wedding day. Because that's when any changes you make will be a pain in the *&^% to fix! Placecards, seating charts and favors will be done. And then you'll have a guest cancel or another decides he can come afterall. STRESS!

Hawks Nest Posted: Sep 04, 2008 05:44 PM

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I have three months to go and had a little break down last night.......

jrzygrl Posted: Sep 04, 2008 07:12 PM

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Currently I agree !!! I'm rather calm- I feel the calmest I've been in a long time... the nightmares have started to creep back but i'm actually pretty calm. I think i'm in major denial that i'm getting married next month! that could account for the calm ... that and well there's a major hurricane coming so Life is a little more chaotic and i'm not stressing about the wedding- so for me it really is the calm before the storm.

autumnbride10 Posted: Sep 04, 2008 07:21 PM

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True. I think it's denial as well...it doesn't feel like it's actually going to happen.... we've waited so long it felt like it was never gonna get here!

111508Bride Posted: Sep 04, 2008 07:31 PM

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I do feel very calm, but I my major concern is where the hell I am going to pull the money from!!!!

2007 Crescent Bride Posted: Sep 05, 2008 07:30 AM

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I am very calm. People keep telling me that I am glowing. I have been through this whole process even with all the crap his family has put us through

laurak102476 Posted: Sep 05, 2008 07:36 AM

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It's weird...not really calm, just trying to keep going with my everyday stuff. With a 6 year old, and a job, you kinda have to. I'm sure a few days before I will be running around like crazy. I pretty much finished everything except finishing wrapping the favors...

Kittyg19 Posted: Sep 05, 2008 07:42 AM

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My hairdresser said you seem really calm.... I do feel pretty calm although I can't believe I still have so many things to do. I hope it lasts. Enjoy it while it does!