Is anyone as sick and tired as I am of..........

jennaandguy09 Posted: Apr 04, 2009 06:47 PM

Is anyone as sick and tired as I am of..........

SPENDING MONEY ON THIS WEDDING...I don't remember the last time I went shopping for something that DIDN'T involve the wedding, we don't go out to dinner anymore, we never do anything fun that we used to and because of all the stress we're sick and at each others throats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ................sorry just had to vent!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

GT143EA Posted: Apr 04, 2009 07:54 PM

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Me!!! So over it!!!!

9509Bride Posted: Apr 04, 2009 08:23 PM

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ah ...yes ME ME ME

caligirl87 Posted: Apr 04, 2009 08:35 PM

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I know I am... I want my life back... I wish we would have eloped! What were we thinking? Graduating, moving, planning a wedding, and buying a home at the same time?!? Ok I'm over it.

jennaandguy09 Posted: Apr 04, 2009 08:39 PM

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Posted by caligirl87

I know I am... I want my life back... I wish we would have eloped! What were we thinking? Graduating, moving, planning a wedding, and buying a home at the same time?!? Ok I'm over it.

ITA!!!!! Wedding, working, school, student teaching, and people INSIST that I should be excited, I'm excited to have my life back with FH and be back in my quiet little world!!!!

SOTHISISLOVE53109 Posted: Apr 04, 2009 10:11 PM

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I CAN'T WAIT TO NOT MENTION THE WORD WEDDING EVER AGAIN LOL SOOOOO OVER IT!!! I'VE BEEN PLANNING THIS FOR 3 years....and can't for it to be over... to much stress and not enough money...

xosweetiexo Posted: Apr 04, 2009 10:22 PM

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Me too!!! Im also tired of planning to be honest with you.... doing the little things that we have left is so hard because I feel like I have no energy anymore lol Booking all major vendors was actually the easiest part

jennaandguy09 Posted: Apr 04, 2009 10:37 PM

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Posted by xosweetiexo

Me too!!! Im also tired of planning to be honest with you.... doing the little things that we have left is so hard because I feel like I have no energy anymore lol Booking all major vendors was actually the easiest part

Youre absolutely right, its all of these things that are driving me insane, the hall and photog were EASY!!!!! Now all I hear about is how excited I must be and how WONDERFUL it is!!!!! I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one who is stressed to the max, exhausted beyond belief and sick to her stomach!!!!!!

lolalovesacroat Posted: Apr 04, 2009 10:43 PM

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I am!! I havent gone shopping, iam so beyond cheap with myself!!

jrdenny Posted: Apr 04, 2009 10:50 PM

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OMG!! all we ever talk about is the wedding i am not sure what we will have to talk about after the wedding is over I hope we still have engaging conversations afterwards because right now all there is to discuss is flowers and tablescapes.

I want our relationship back!

coldasice217 Posted: Apr 04, 2009 11:58 PM

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I am so sick of it. I'm cheap to begin with, so this is torturing me. And me and FH are just constantly fighting, over card boxes and dance lessons. I mean, really. This is all so much more trouble than its worth.

ttdiff11 Posted: Apr 05, 2009 12:18 AM

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lol i never go shopping anymore for myself!

jennaandguy09 Posted: Apr 05, 2009 12:31 AM

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Its even cause problems with my parents who are paying for the RH...I sent out the invites today and there was a whole fight because dad doesn't know who he wants to invite, I sent one to a friend of his who he said he wanted,now he doesn't want that person there, I swear my parents have become bipolar, we were always so close and now all we do is fight, were all so miserable, I just want things to be the way they were!!!!

JnA823 Posted: Apr 05, 2009 01:24 AM

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I definately agree.. I keep losing my momentum and everybody is stressing me out since we are running out of time. I can't wait for my wedding but definately can't wait for it to be over so I can relax.

NikkiR515 Posted: Apr 05, 2009 01:26 AM

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I am soooo over spending money on the wedding!! If I would have known what I was getting myself into I would have eloped and took and extended honeymoon instead! I just keep thinking....It will all be over soon enough and then I can know what it's like to have some money again!

TaraVinny Posted: Apr 05, 2009 07:58 AM

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i'm feeling that way too!

MLAngelo Posted: Apr 05, 2009 08:01 AM

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well my parents are paying for it, so I am more sick and tired of hearing what they could be doing (like redoing their bedroom) if they didn't have to pay for the wedding, because I feel bad that in this hard economic times they are spending so much money. But FH and I are spending enough (between wedding bands, honeymoon, little extras) that between that and our house it has definitely hurt our social life and ability to buy things for ourselves.

Celeste617 Posted: Apr 05, 2009 12:11 PM

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OMG I AM SOOOOOOOO sick of it We both keep saying that we cannot wait until this wedding is over so that we can start living our lives again!!! And we're constantly stressed and therefore more irritable Thank goodness this madness will be over in two months

Espo22 Posted: Apr 05, 2009 01:52 PM

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awww that part does S*CK!!!! i barely shopped at all during the 2 years i was engaged lol only if i NEEDED to and even that was a rare occasion.

Don't worry, just think that in 2 months you'll be able to spend money on yourself again

Deb-Rob Posted: Apr 05, 2009 01:54 PM

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ITA... enough already! I am actually looking forward to the day AFTER my wedding, so we can get the hell out of here and go on our honeymoon! I swear between, work, this freaking wedding, selling not 1 but 2 apartments, and having another obligation (baby showers, birthdays, holidays...etc...) Im ready to lose my mind... my poor FH takes the brunt of my rage fits!