Is anyone doing anything in their ceremony in rememberance of a deceased relative?

Fhs dad passed away two years ago of cancer. We will mention him in the prgrams, and in the Prayer of the Faithful. Have a memory candle that will be at the Church then come to reception with us a sit on our table. We are also making a donation to the American Cancer Society in memory of him and will give organze bags of Hershey kisses with a card attatched saying something like....in lieu of favors we've made a donation to the American Cancer Society in memory of XXXXXXXXXXX