Is anyone else.........

amstellitelady Posted: Feb 01, 2005 02:21 PM

Is anyone else.........

losing sleep over their wedding already. I can't tell you how many sleepless nights I've had already and my wedding isn't for another year+. I have nightmares that my gown doesn't fit right or I won't get things done in time, if I've missed something, my FI decides he doesn't wanna get married or something goes wrong in general with the limo, or hall, etc. If this keeps up I'm gonna start taking valium

i need a vacation . I'm stressing way to much this early

Thumballina Posted: Feb 01, 2005 02:53 PM

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OMG yes...I keep thinking that we're going to blow our budget out of the water (not on purpose but just bc everythings so damn expensive)and that come time after the wedding we have NO MONEY to live anywhere...I keep stressing about the little things...like the menu which doens't have to be thought about until a month before, I think about the limos how guests are getting from the reception site to the hotel...what the heck am I gonna be like this time next year???Probably checking into Creadmore....

hmpena Posted: Feb 01, 2005 02:53 PM

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I am definitely stressing about the wedding. I feel like I have no idea what I am doing and spend half of the night on the internet trying to find things. But I don't even know what I am looking for!! I can completely understand what you are going through.

amstellitelady Posted: Feb 01, 2005 03:02 PM

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Posted by Thumballina

OMG yes...I keep thinking that we're going to blow our budget out of the water (not on purpose but just bc everythings so damn expensive)and that come time after the wedding we have NO MONEY to live anywhere...I keep stressing about the little things...like the menu which doens't have to be thought about until a month before, I think about the limos how guests are getting from the reception site to the hotel...what the heck am I gonna be like this time next year???Probably checking into Creadmore....

we can all check in together

the living situation is a huge thing for me. we are moving in together within this month or next and I'm so scared we won't have the money for the apartment and the wedding.........CALGON TAKE ME AWAY!!!!

coxmandi Posted: Feb 01, 2005 03:02 PM

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I haven't lost sleep, but I have already started to worry, especially about money.

Money and FFIL's contribution (none other than a gift) are the two things I worry about most.

amstellitelady Posted: Feb 01, 2005 03:03 PM

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hmpena-I hear that on not knowing what to do. I do the same thing on the internet. Search search search, for what, don't know

Vicky1706 Posted: Feb 01, 2005 03:15 PM

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I tend to have dreams related to my current issue. Since we are registering now, last night I remember seeing pots & pans in my dream.

It sucks! lol

CJStein Posted: Feb 01, 2005 03:20 PM

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I haven't lost sleep yet, everything has been pretty smooth so far with booking the vendors we chose and such. BUT, I have had one freakish nightmare..I was at my wedding in a white slip and black suit jacket....the DJ was terrible and no one was dancing. His booth took up the whole dance floor too. Very wierd.

This was before we booked our band and Ifound my dress, so hopefully no more dreams like this!

KandM2006 Posted: Feb 01, 2005 03:47 PM

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You know I've had to take asprin almost EVERY night we do wedding related things. The stress won't let me sleep.....

babslovesjoey Posted: Feb 01, 2005 03:51 PM

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hmpena Posted: Feb 01, 2005 03:58 PM

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Posted by amstellitelady

hmpena-I hear that on not knowing what to do. I do the same thing on the internet. Search search search, for what, don't know

Jenn- glad to know that I am not alone. I don't even know what I am looking for!! i find myself looking at dresses, candles, or nothing at all!! UGH!!

amstellitelady Posted: Feb 01, 2005 04:35 PM

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Posted by hmpena

Posted by amstellitelady

hmpena-I hear that on not knowing what to do. I do the same thing on the internet. Search search search, for what, don't know

Jenn- glad to know that I am not alone. I don't even know what I am looking for!! i find myself looking at dresses, candles, or nothing at all!! UGH!!

I know-i look into things that i have no reason to be looking into so early in my engagement. like placecards, i keep nagging my FI about them. what for, I don't know, just to do it and its stressing me. something that doesn't need to be done till like this time next and i'm worrying about now. I would say i need a job or something to keep me busy instead of being on here day and night, but..........I'M AT WORK RIGHT NOW

and in 30 min from now i'll leave to go home and workout and wonder what i should do next.

jaclyncalderon Posted: Feb 01, 2005 05:12 PM

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I have crazy dreams all the time - the most popular one for me ist that my FH and i completly forgot to do certain things like hire a abnd/DJ or get our marriage license, order a cake, etc ...

LuckyMe Posted: Feb 01, 2005 05:30 PM

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Sure I had a dream that I couldnt get my wedding dress on because I like gained 200lbs over night Then the whole money thing was keeping me up at night that's why we deceided to put it off(the big wedding)until 07 and get married in vegas for now! Doesn't stop the waco dreams though

higginsk Posted: Feb 01, 2005 07:03 PM

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I have incredibly real and scary dreams every night about something going wrong!!! In one of them I missed my wedding because I was next door at the hotel trying to fix the fact that my guests had no rooms!!

I am so glad that I am not hte only one.

Kim51103 Posted: Feb 01, 2005 08:12 PM

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Ive had some nutty dreams....and crazy sleepless nights....
but its ok....i guess!!!
hehehee

sarahbelle Posted: Feb 01, 2005 08:43 PM

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I haven't lost sleep, but I am definitely worried about money!

kissy27 Posted: Feb 01, 2005 08:45 PM

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not too bad yet but I had a dream the other night that the photographer didn't show up til the reception was half over!

gNi1125 Posted: Feb 01, 2005 09:08 PM

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No nightmares but I realize that when I lay down to fall asleep my mind start to wander on the wedding stuff and then I'm wide awake. Then I have to concentrate on my breathing to clear my mind. lol. I'm so wierd sometimes

soon2BmrsC Posted: Feb 01, 2005 10:18 PM

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Ya!!! i'm not the only one!!! I am freaking out about money! everything is soooo expensive. i know we have over a year to save, but i just don't know how it's all going to work out. and my FI is so calm and relaxed saying don't worry it will all work out somehow. BUT HOW??? i also just don't know where to begin. there's a zillion photographers, florists, limo companies! how much is everything supposed to cost? i don't even know how to begin comparing prices! what's the difference between a good deal and a cheap company that doesn't do good work??? AAAHHHH!!!! I'm so overwhelmed and don't know where to begin! Can someone please win the lotto and just plan a beautiful wedding for me? thanks!

(phew! i feel better now)