almost half the people you are inviting will RSVP no? I realistically know that wouldn't happen (at least I hope not!) but a part of me is soooo nervous that everyone has plans that day and won't be able to come!! And then my room will be almost empty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is it normal to think about that??
shoegal68
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yes i felt the same way the other day as i was sorting through my invitations.. i think its normal... don't worry everybody that is important to you & loves you will be there.
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I was wishing this would happen to me but only 10 people said no and I invited 30 people over so we had a lot of extra heads to pay for. Apparently people like us lol
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No I actually think 90% will come they are mstly in the area except for a few OOTers so i think we will get a good ammount of yess rsvps
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We do not have a 'B' list. We are only inviting those who we think and expect to come. I have a 50 person minimum and just off the top of my head I hit it. We are inviting 136, I'd be happy with 115. But I am 98.8% sure that everyone we are inviting will RSVP yes. We also sent our STD's out one year (to the day) before our wedding. If someone says they can't come because of short notice...we'll know they are a bull sh!t friend!!!
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it is completly normal..i am having over half my guest list respond NO!!!
its all FH family
all his guests arent even filing up a table
talk to me when it really happens
its nooooooo fun i promise!!
good luck to you..i wouldnt wish this on anyone
thats why im inviting LIW girls to fill seats
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Posted by failurebydsign
it is completly normal..i am having over half my guest list respond NO!!!
its all FH family
all his guests arent even filing up a table
talk to me when it really happens
its nooooooo fun i promise!!
good luck to you..i wouldnt wish this on anyone
thats why im inviting LIW girls to fill seats
Saturday night at Chateau La Mer.......you can count me in if you need to. FH loves that place as well if you need another body! He's a dancer too and loves to give toasts!!!!!!!!!!
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i think i wold love it!!!
our list started off at 300, we are down to 271. lol our min. is 200
gettinghizitched
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I hope that some people say no! Sorry i'm no help!
kristi313
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i totally have that fear, but i also get really scared that no one will dance!
Mrs. V 2008
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I wish..i have more people than i wanted
MayWeddingGrl
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have you sent out save the dates? if so, most people should already have your date marked down. a couple of friends called or emailed me after getting our save the date to let us know that they wouldn't be able to make it, so it already is giving us a better idea of the head count.
