This entire wedding process has been SO smooth sailing....I guess being 2 months away when everything is very soon and you're thinking of all the money your about to shell out~
We are really stressed over finances!!!
Yet everyone 'says' that somehow it all works out and you have the money.
Is this really true or are people just trying to be nice? LOL
And is it wrong to hope that we have a lot of 'No' rsvp's? I feel like an A hole saying that, but truly that would really help. We have 292 invited.
I'm stressing big time
LadyDuda81509
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the only time i stress is when i have to pay my credit card bill every month! lol im fine handing it over all the time, just paying it stresses me out! like its never ever going to get paid off!
Ann 52409
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Dont worry hunny.... Somehow it does and will work out but trust me I prayed for NO's and then 12 people didnt even show so dont pay for everyone at the reception hal.. But trust me we got so stressed close to the time and somehow it worked out.
IrishBrideASmiling
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OMG YES!! Towards the end it was very stressful bc we decided to buy a house and we closed like a month before the wedding, so DH and I basically felt like an ATM and joked about how any stranger could come up to us at that point and say we owe them $1,000 and we would probably just hand it over and not even question it.
Even though we saved and budgeted, in the end we still were coming up short and we ended up cutting some smaller things out at the end. Trust me, it all seems to just magically work out towards the end.
lucydin2009
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FH and I have been arguing about this lately too and it makes me sad I hate fighting and especially about the wedding. I think it is just stress...so now I am looking forward to the honeymoon more and more everyday!!!!!
MaggieLuvsJoe
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it does get extremely stressful leading up to the wedding, you start to wonder what the heck you're doing and why you wanted to have a big wedding if you can't pay for it......miraculously everything gets paid....you might be broke the day after but everything works out....take a deep breath and try to relax
