an uneven number of people in the BP? If so how many on each side and how will they walk in during the ceromony?
I think this is going to wind up happening to me and it is driving me nuts!!!
TIA
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I am... I have 5 ladies and my FH has 4 men. I might have 2 girls walk with one of the guys. I havent figured it completely out yet- but thats prob what Im going to do. I'll have the MOH walk alone before we get married and then after, she can double up with another couple. Dont worry about it... I'm not because it happens all of the time
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I did have an uneven bp. 9 girls, 11 guys. And it worked out just fine. To me it was alot more important that we have those we care about in the bp rather than lets say not asking somebody we really wanted just to keep it even. All 11 guys were real good friends of DH and I didn't mind. The day of nobody notices or is a big deal. I only needed to have one person double up. Ive seen this at alot of weddings
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Yes, I am and I think there are so many ways to do this - two BM to one GM or other way around. . two BMs walk down together. . or have one walk down by themself - you can really do it however you want. . when I asked on here it seemed like a LOT of people were having uneven numbers. just ask who you want and don't worry. .
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ive seen a few weddings wth uneven BP's. just double up...its no big deal
RitasEngaged
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I am most likely going to have 5 BM and 7 GM It is just bothering me with how they would walk into the church.
ttdiff11
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yesss mine is def uneven lol and its huge
12 girls ( 2 are moh's) and 9 or 10 guys.
2 fg's
Espo22
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Posted by RitasEngaged
I am most likely going to have 5 BM and 7 GM It is just bothering me with how they would walk into the church.
You can have 2 gm escort 1 bm. We did it for ours and also when I was a bm a few months ago, I had to walk down the aisle with another bm and the gm.
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Posted by RitasEngaged
I am most likely going to have 5 BM and 7 GM It is just bothering me with how they would walk into the church.
You can have 2 gm escort 1 bm. We did it for ours and also when I was a bm a few months ago, I had to walk down the aisle with another bm and the gm.
yeah I will just have to do that.
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I had 3 on Dhs side and 4 on mine. Entrance went as follows...
Groom and his parents
2 best men (my bros) and my mom
bridesmaid and groomsman (they're a couple)
bridesmaid
bridesmaid
bridesmaid
my dad and I
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yep iam, im having a very small BP though, if you have a big one thats uneven, you can have one guy walk with two girls, or everyone walk by themselves, might take kinda long though depending on the size of the whole BP
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I have 5 girls and FH has 6 guys...not sure how its gonna work yet. Everyone says its not a big deal though.
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this was my bridal party! It made me nuts for a little bit but then I dealt with it and realized that I didn't want to add anymore for the sake of evening it out.
DH had essentially (2) Best Men but we made it A best man and groomsman and there really was no other guys that we felt were significant in our lives.
I had my MOH, and (2) BMs
I didn't stress about it and the photographer works with it (prior to the wedding I did have a day when I was upset b/c my photos wouldn't be balanced. Also the DOC handled the recessional and it worked out.
I wouldn't add more people unless you really want someone in your party it is an honor and you want the people that will support you throughout everything!
Processional..... Groomsman Best man MOH BM BM Flowergirls
Recessional was BM & MOH BM GM BM
HTH
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I have 5 girls and FH has 6 guys...not sure how its gonna work yet. Everyone says its not a big deal though.
does the 6 guys include bestman? if so remember the best man stands at the altar with your FH. Although if the 5 girls includes MOH, the moh walks in alone so would still be uneven. But if you have no brothers or a close family member walking your mom down the aisle, you can have a gm walk her and this way it would end up being even. If not you just have to have one bm escorted by 2 guys, or you can have each one walk out alone.
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we had 5 BMs and 4 grooms men,
It worked out for us because my sister walked with my father and me down the aisle . When she was introduced she was going to walk with my other MOH and best man but DH decided he wanted his brother to be intro-ed too so my sister walked with BIL.
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we are having 5 girls and 3 guys. Best man is up at altar with FH, the two GM will double up with girls and my MOH is walking down by herself
coldasice217
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I'm having a very uneven BP, it's going to be 6 girls and 3 guys. But now each guy gets a girl on each arm, so I'm sure they wont complain lol.
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i like it for picts when its not even cuz you can be more creative with posing and I think it looks awesome, you can figure something out for who walks with who no problem
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I havent officially asked anyone yet ..but if I ask who I am planning and they say yes I will have 4 girls and 6 guys....There are two best men so they with both walk with MOH
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We have 6 BMs and 4 GMs, we'll probably double them up..
