Is anyone inviting an EX to their wedding???

Original post by MRSJLK

Apr 22, 2004 07:54 PM

nov04LIbride Posted: Apr 23, 2004 12:57 PM

Re: Is anyone inviting an EX to their wedding???

I don't know! I dated my ex for four years in college (we met first week freshman year and were together until after graduation--longer than me and my FH so far!). FH has never met him, and I don't know if the wedding is the appropriate place. My father wishes I was marrying him, and I don't know if I would want those issues there either! AHHH!

Rae912 Posted: Apr 23, 2004 01:00 PM

Re: Is anyone inviting an EX to their wedding???

Not only am I inviing an EX but my EX who is my best friend in the world is going to be a groomsmen. My FH asked me to have his sister as a BM, and since my brothers are too old to want to be an usher I asked him if my EX could do it. The two of them get along great! Actually my EX and his girlfriend are comming to visit us in a couple of weeks. We dated over 6 years ago.

takeoutcook Posted: Apr 23, 2004 01:30 PM

Re: Is anyone inviting an EX to their wedding???

i'm friendly with an ex but i think my extended family would beat him up, if given the opportunity. . . so for the ex's safety, my piece of mind, and my fh's sanity, the ex is not invited.

I wouldnt want my fh to invite an ex, so i wont either.

MRSJLK Posted: Apr 23, 2004 01:39 PM

Re: Is anyone inviting an EX to their wedding???

Posted by Bebalina

for myself no...if it was fh wanting to do so ...no...personally i dont want anyone in the room that slept with my fh/dh ...not on my wedding day.

great point!

nferrandi Posted: Apr 23, 2004 02:54 PM

Re: Is anyone inviting an EX to their wedding???

There's only one I would invite, but I don't think it will happen. FH and ex all hang out with the same people, so they're friendly. FH mom has so many people on her guests list that we had to cut ours down, and that means we cut some friends out and my ex was part of that list. My ex is going to FH bachelor trip to Vegas.

hbradio Posted: Apr 23, 2004 03:07 PM

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ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!!

The only people at the wedding that will have seen my FH naked is me (obviously) and his mom (when changing his diaper)!

The same goes for my exes!

JimmysBride Posted: Apr 23, 2004 03:08 PM

Re: Is anyone inviting an EX to their wedding???

Nope! First of all FH would FLIP if I even considered it, 2nd of all I wouldn't appreciate it if HE did it, and 3rdly -- my ex would probably stand up and object

HOWEVER, I might be inviting some mutual friends of ours and some of his cousins!!

PrincessRose Posted: Apr 23, 2004 03:30 PM

Re: Is anyone inviting an EX to their wedding???

Jax, what is it with you and I?

We've got an Ex in the party too! FH's ex-girlfriend is one of my Bridesmaids.

But you are ahead of me for two reasons:
1: You have TWO exes in the party
2: Because they're YOUR exes and not Brad's - I'm impressed.

Girls, if you knew my exes you'd understand why they're not invited. But 2 of FH's exes are friends of mine. So they're invited!