I win! I'm inviting 5! I'm still close friends with all of them, and FH gets along with all of them.
Now here's the shocker...2 of them are in the wedding party! One is a mutual friend from college who I was going out with for 3 months my freshman year....2 years before i started dating FH. The other is my first boyfriend, at age 15, who has been one of my closest friends for the last 10 years!
I know, I'm weird, but I'm happy to have them all as part of my life.
nan&dave
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I have 2 on my list. One will totally be there, the other maybe. They're both married now, so FH doesn't get jealous. They're great people.
Xelindrya
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My first real deep everlasting love.
Yep he's coming with his FW I think.. THey are invited. Jim know Im his. No problem.
FeliciaDA
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Um ........NO WAY!
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I am undecided.....I have him on my maybe list - everyone is telling me that I'm crazy if I invite him...we still talk and are not on bad terms...I don't know what to do.
Don't think of him as an ex. Think of him as a person. Is this a person you want at your wedding? Yes or No. Simple answer. See?
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We invited one of FH's exes, but she will be out of town at a family gathering that weekend. She is also my friend.
Short story. When FH didn't think I would date him, he decided to date a friend of mine who had shown interest in him. I was jealous because I really did want to date him but didn't know how to say it, so I stopped talking to FH (then just a friend) and the girl for 10 months. They broke up after 3 months, she went back to her ex boyfriend (who she is still with), and FH and I eventually became friends again and started to date.
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NO WAY!!!
brooklynbridezilla
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Yup! One, who is a good buddy.
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No way! But, I have a feeling that one may come and watch the ceremony (it's okay, I think he's gay)
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Posted by DecBride04
FH would have my head I would probably look like this:
My thoughts exactly. I had a really bad breakup and FH and I were friends at the time and he hates him so it would just cause a fight...a bad one!!!! I did accidently have him find out about the engagement but not for nice reasons...just to boast!!!!!!!!
I am not mean, I swear!!!
nylisa
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I am too. His mom is a very good friend of my mom, so his parents, his sister and her DH and him and his FI will be invited.
Bebalina
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for myself no...if it was fh wanting to do so ...no...personally i dont want anyone in the room that slept with my fh/dh ...not on my wedding day.
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I'm not, and I told my FH that he is not even allowed to invite his ex-wife to the ceremony. I will give her a pic of their daughter walking down the aisle. She has been awful to him and me and I refuse to allow her there.
tourist
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Yes, I am. Actually, when I first made up the list, I left him off & when FH typed it up, he added him & his girlfriend. The ex has also been to his other ex girlfriend's wedding, so I'm sure its not big thing to him.
We are in the same circle of friends. It took us years, but we are friends now. We camp together with a bunch of other people every September.
FH would have my head I would probably look like this:
Me too! I would be scared to even joke about it!
SandraLynn
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I am inviting an guy I had dated a few times, and he is coming w/ his wife, we are very good friends...I don't even know if FH knows that this guy & wife are on the invite list....But the EX I want to invite, ahhh, that would NOT fly!! But I do want to invite him....
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I am inviting three of them. All are good friends now and FI is fine with it. Neither of us are inviting any recent ex's though.
OctGroom
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Oh God .. no
I have never been able to stay freinds with an ex.. and I would absolutely forbid any ex's there if she even considered it.
Though there is one of her ex's whose a$$ I would love to kick thoroughly.
MrsNYPDsGirl
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I may be inviting an ex... He is on the '?' list right now. But FH doesn't know we ever dated and they have never met. He (the ex) is my Mom's friend's son.
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I have 3 exes coming. FH knows 1 of them pretty well and likes him. He has met the other one a few times (he lives in London) and the third one FH met at our engagement party- with his wife and kids.
