is anyone not doing these:

I'm doing a cake topper - but it's a lenox one that was bought from a store.

Not doing WE DO letters for the cake table

Not doing slipper or bathroom basket

Not doing table number pictures

Not doing OOT bags - and this is actually the only thing that I kinda wish we were doing. But with 9 days to go time and money are short

ETA: Not doing menu's - my hall provides them already

We are doing programs but I have one of my Bridesmaids actually working on them for me.

i will prob have a few cake toppers... thanks to mom hwo just keeps buying em.... 1 will go on top and the others on the table aroud the cake....

and plan on doing the table names cuz i think its really cool

and im doin menus cuz my rh doesnt have em.... hopfully that can change between now and then LOL

oh and im not doing slipper baskets either, never planned on that

i want to do menu's and with programs if i get to it then i'll get to it, if not its ok

I'm not doing a cake topper... Maybe flowers- but I'm not planning to buy anything. We're going to put some additional items on the cake table (maybe some memory items- pictures).... and a disney cake topper that someone got for us which we like, but don't want on the cake

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Posted by Jenn04

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Posted by Future Mulligan

i dont think we are going to do anything with our cake....no flowers, no monogram - maybe we'll get some crystal snowflakes or something along those lines to put on it but i havent seen anything that i really like...

we are doing table #'s - we are going to use pictures of our dog

im doing programs but i dont think im going to do any menus - if i did do menus i would do the circle ones - i LOVE those!

you arent being lazy - i bet nobody even appreciates or notices half the things we do! hopefully our guests will be to busy having a good time to notice all the small details....

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What are circle menus? Please share

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now i love these but question, most RH's have the appetizers on the tables when guests enter so they cant do this bc of that right? i mean every RH i went to, when you get to your table they have the salad, or app

I'm thinking of doing the LOVE leters, but none of the other things you mentioned...you're not lazy by any means...if you don't want it or have time for it, then you don't HAVE to do it.

I remember reading a post by an 07 bride, and she said that you shouldn't feel peer pressure to do things just because others on LIW are doing it.

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Posted by gabbie83

- cake topper --- im thinking abotu just doing flowers on top, i cant find anything i like :(
- we do letters/love letters on cake table - with 1 month away i dont know if i want to be bothered wiht it
- picture/table numbers - i dont know if i want to do it, it seems so time consuming & im thinking it might be too much...

ANyone with me?

Am I being a lazy bride?

I still have programs & menus to do.

I'already elminated the slipper basket. lol.
I just dont have the time

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We are having a monogram cake topper

Table numbers I am doing myself using pictures of me and FH.

We are doing 'We Do' letters for the cake table.

Menu's are provided by the RH

I am not sure if I am going to do program's yet and I might do away with the slipper basket.

Not doing a cake topper. on the cake Iam having miss Piggy and kermit standing by the cake.

I did the We Do, and thats it! I WAS done with them, but FH stepped on the W and broke it,and now i have to do it over!!!! So maddddd!

yes to cake topper

no to we do letters
no to table numbers with our pic

and yes to menus

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Posted by blaine08

ur not alone!! i'm not doing cake topper (just fresh flowers on top and cascading down). No we do letters and i'm using the RHs table numbers!

the menus/programs and favors are enough DIY for me! you'll be fine

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same here. I was only planning (hoping) on doing menus and MAYBE programs. no topper, no table numbers, definitely no we do. I even want to get someone to write my placecards b/c i sooo do not want to!

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Jenn04

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Posted by Future Mulligan

i dont think we are going to do anything with our cake....no flowers, no monogram - maybe we'll get some crystal snowflakes or something along those lines to put on it but i havent seen anything that i really like...

we are doing table #'s - we are going to use pictures of our dog

im doing programs but i dont think im going to do any menus - if i did do menus i would do the circle ones - i LOVE those!

you arent being lazy - i bet nobody even appreciates or notices half the things we do! hopefully our guests will be to busy having a good time to notice all the small details....

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What are circle menus? Please share

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now i love these but question, most RH's have the appetizers on the tables when guests enter so they cant do this bc of that right? i mean every RH i went to, when you get to your table they have the salad, or app

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yes, i was originally all about the circle menu. my rh told me they usually have the appetizer on the plate when the guests arrive, and they could not do that if I wanted, but I figured it would just take more time for them to serve everyone, and people would have to move the menu right away anyway. We actually made a sample circle menu, and i ended up doing the long ones instead, they looked more formal. I think the circle ones are great for a summer/more casual wedding, jmo

No topper, no letters, no pictures.

I wouldn't call it lazy. We all have plenty to worry about, don't feel obligated to do it if you don't have the time.

i'm doing table numbers, but not the pictures. I'm naming the tables after wines.

the other stuff....ehhh

slipper baskets --no people can dance barefoot just i like did at their weddings!

WE DO letters -- thought this was cute but I'm too lazy to do it.

Cake topper--i bought one a while ago, but now i dont know if it will go with my cake



and BTW YAY GABBIE!!! only a month to go!!!

no cake topper for us--flowers did just fine


no we/i do letters

no slipper baskets

no cry packs

none of that stuff really interested me. just menus & programs were done