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Is anyone not spending Thanksgiving with FH???

AS Posted:

Is anyone not spending Thanksgiving with FH???

Im not. He is going with his family to Jersey/Philly and Im staying with my family in Queens. I think I may be working on Fri, thats why I didnt go but its my last Thanks with my fam before I get married so thats another reason why I didnt go
zoe282 Posted:

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I'm not I'm home in PA and he stayed in NY with his family....Its rough cause he gets to see his family all the time since we live there and I don't get to see mine so I think he should give on this one...but he didnt' so now we are apart....

AS Posted:

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I guess Im the only one
Espo22 Posted:

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Fh's family goes upstate but he's coming over my house for thanksgiving. The fact that i do work friday made it easy for us to decide who we spend thanksgiving with bc staying by me is alot easier than driving upstate...hes coming by my house today and will just sleep over so its perfect bc neither of us have to do any traveling tomorrow except from the bedroom to the living room lol.

Do you always do thanksgiving separate?
snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by MPAS

I guess Im the only one



the first year we weren't together but after that he would come over late. this is our first holiday where we will be together all day
i'm excited
NapaValleyGirl Posted:

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Honestly, I wish I was spending it with my family... I'm honestly a little sad. I'm happy to be with FH and his family but I must admit, I was teary last night. Also, we just found out my mom was diagnosed with diabetes and all i really want to do is go home and help her cook and be a total watchdog over what she eats....
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Fh's family goes upstate but he's coming over my house for thanksgiving. The fact that i do work friday made it easy for us to decide who we spend thanksgiving with bc staying by me is alot easier than driving upstate...hes coming by my house today and will just sleep over so its perfect bc neither of us have to do any traveling tomorrow except from the bedroom to the living room lol.

Do you always do thanksgiving separate?



yeah I didnt want to be stuck in traffic if I went with him.

We always spend Thanksgiving together. I remember one year, when we first started going out, we didnt but the party is always at my house but this year its at my uncles house, they moved to a new house so my ENTIRE family is going there. I kinda have to go.
DeannaNDave07 Posted:

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im so sad.. .my FH will be working... it really stinks
AS Posted:

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

Honestly, I wish I was spending it with my family... I'm honestly a little sad. I'm happy to be with FH and his family but I must admit, I was teary last night. Also, we just found out my mom was diagnosed with diabetes and all i really want to do is go home and help her cook and be a total watchdog over what she eats....




Awww sorry to hear this.
NapaValleyGirl Posted:

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

Honestly, I wish I was spending it with my family... I'm honestly a little sad. I'm happy to be with FH and his family but I must admit, I was teary last night. Also, we just found out my mom was diagnosed with diabetes and all i really want to do is go home and help her cook and be a total watchdog over what she eats....




Awww sorry to hear this.



Yeah, I sent her flowers today to her office (she loves it when flowers are sent to her while she's working) A thanksgiving bouquet.... I'm trying to keep my chin up around FH because I don't want him to feel bad.... Thanks for the
MSeed Posted:

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I have never spent an entire Thanksgiving with FH. He spends it with his family and then come over late on Thursday.

jennandrolo Posted:

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we're actually spending our first thanksgiving together. hes coming with his mom, brother and sister in law. im excited
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

Fh's family goes upstate but he's coming over my house for thanksgiving. The fact that i do work friday made it easy for us to decide who we spend thanksgiving with bc staying by me is alot easier than driving upstate...hes coming by my house today and will just sleep over so its perfect bc neither of us have to do any traveling tomorrow except from the bedroom to the living room lol.

Do you always do thanksgiving separate?



yeah I didnt want to be stuck in traffic if I went with him.

We always spend Thanksgiving together. I remember one year, when we first started going out, we didnt but the party is always at my house but this year its at my uncles house, they moved to a new house so my ENTIRE family is going there. I kinda have to go.



WELL JUST think that next year you'll definitely spend it together

and last night we were talking and he said that one year we have to go upstate and i said how about we have it next year and then FH said YES were definitely doing that, so WOW its crazy to think i'll host it next year
Browneyesncute Posted:

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this might be the last thankgiving my mom is having so fh and his parents are coming to my moms!
KickinDandelions Posted:

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we're having lunch with his family in queens and then dinner with my family in nj

i can't wait..i love my family so much!!
kimnsteve Posted:

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its the only holiday this year that I will be spending with him bc he has to work on all the other ones ....it makes me cry when i think about it

Luvbsb4eva Posted:

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I'm not... we never spend the holidays together since his family is in Pittsburgh, PA and mine is here on Long Island! I can't wait till we're married and get to be together every holiday!

minibride08 Posted:

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This year we're spending it with my family :) Well, some of my family (grandparents, brother, aunt/uncle cousins, etc) at one of my aunt's sister's houses by woodbury commons. We're excited b/c she has a beautiful house and there's probably going to be 20+ people and she's a wonderful cook!!! YUM...

We alternate holdiays though- so xmas is at FH parent's house in Commack....
skinny237 Posted:

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I never spend Thanksgiving w/ FH. It's hunting season. It doesn't bother me now---but he'll have 2 come home for Thanksgiving when we have kids.


U R not the only 1!
jjk1007 Posted:

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I'm gonna be with DH's family for Thanksgiving. I cant remember the last time I was home for Thanksgiving. I live in Wisconsin and the family lives in south Florida. This is always a really hard time of the year for me because I'm extremely close to my family, and DH and his family aren't as close. So the holidays don't have that same feeling that I grew up with. I miss my family so much!

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