is anyone refusing to look at dresses.....

is anyone refusing to look at dresses.....

like i am? i have my dress and I just do not want to see anymore. there's always that what if.....so i feel what i don't see won't hurt me.

i say this because i saw in Modern Bride a dress i really liked AFTER i purchased mine but breathed the biggest sigh of relief when i saw the price tag at almost $12,000.

last night at the show i walked into the Bridal Reflections area and saw a pretty one but said, ehhhh i like mine better.

now when i decide on things in general my foot is down. i'm not an indecisive person...i like what i like and people know when i like something.

plus, i love my dress and wouldn't change it for the world but have to wonder what the hell's wrong with me

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after i got my dress i kept looking online and it kept making me doubt my dress. After my dress came in and i tried it on and loved it, i decided i was not gonna keep looking up dresses online bc i am only gonna drive myself crazy!!!

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i think its normal for you to second guess your decision. but remember there are many nice dresses out there but there was a reason you bought the one you did... i am sure once you put it back on you'll remember why you picked your dress!

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I look at dresses and keep crying that I made the wrong choice. altho when really looking at another dress I still love mine more than any other dress.

the doubting part will always be there, nothing to do about that other than accept it as part of getting married.

I went to POB last week and thought maybe I will find another dress I will like more than mine and it wont be a big deal cause of the huge sales, but every single dress I saw I kept comparing to mine. guess that settles it

Alyssa, just keep thinking about what made u say about urs 'THIS IS THE ONE', thats what I do

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I haven't intentionally looked at another wedding dress since the deposit was put down on mine.

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i have and its the worst thing you could do! so i made myself stop! lol there are so manu beautiful dresses you just make yourself doubt your decision when you continue searching. I love my dress even more now that it fits!!! makes such a difference

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Yeah I gave up, refused, whatevs

I was soooooooooooooo indecisive. I could NOT make a decision. And then I did and said THIS IS IT. No turning back. And I haven't really looked at all since.

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I REFUSE. haha. When I see wedding dresses I always want to look, but I know I can't tempt it!

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After I odered my dress I refused to allow myself to look at another dress! and of course ive seen more dresses but im not looking for/at those dresses!

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I won't look at anymore dresses!!! I think my mom would kill me!!!!

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I think its weird I really dont like ANY dresses. I have tons of bridal mags and ive yet to find one dress I love in it. So I'm one person who is not worried abuot changing my mind on my dress.

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OMG this is me too. I bought my dress kinda quickly and was having doubts. I absolutely love my dress but there's always that fear that I see something I like better. I saw this dress on Say yes to the Dress that I thought was amazing and last night I saw it in person and it didn't do much for me so I was happy...I think there's always that fear but I still absolutely love my dress and can't wait till I see it with the changes I made when it comes in

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I still look and 2nd guess my dress at least once a week. For a while I stopped looking but I just can't help but to look at dresses. There is no way to get around it because I like to watch Say Yes to The Dress, look a what other brides are wearing and I really enjoy Martha Stewart Wedding Mag.

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This sounds exactly like me. I love my dress but I need to STOP looking at other dresses because I keep seeing others that I love too!!

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when i go bm dress shopping I peak at the dresses but mines so much nicer. I would never try another one on again!!

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I try not to look at dresses too. I have a big fear of falling in love with another dress. And my money is not gonna be wasted!!

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yeah i stopped looking as soon as i found mine...