Is everyone's BP getting on their nerves

I went dress shopping yesterday and today with 2 of my BM because one has to work and the other is going away tomorrow. I called my MOH in MD, who is coming here tomorrow night to tell her that we found a few dresses that they like and she got a total attitude saying that she didn't know why I wanted her to come up here if I was going to choose dresses without her. I DIDN'T , I only collected stlye numbers in preparation for her and another BM who is coming on Thursday to go shopping with us. My FH says she may feel slighted I don't think she has a reason her opinion is important to me too. Is this common with everyone? I didn't mean to hurt her feelings.