Is he involved with EVERYTHING?

Original post by sami

May 17, 2006 08:19 AM

Good Morning Is everyone Fh involved with every little aspect of your big day, or he is like okay honey whatever you want?

EJSD2006 Posted: May 17, 2006 10:15 AM

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my FH was only involved with the things he cares about...the DJ, limo, and HM. everything else he says 'whatever you want babe'.

now as the wedding is getting closer, he asks about money but other than that he sits back and let's me finalize everything.

shellnroc Posted: May 17, 2006 11:14 AM

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Posted by vixchik

Posted by chesca

Posted by sami

okay honey whatever you want?

Exactly what he says

yup!!! (until he sees or hears the idea, then he has an opinion... )

Mine is the same way!!
I Love when I do something (because remember he said, 'whatever you want Hun') and after it's done he says, 'we should do this'.
Why, couldn't you have told me when I FIRST ASKED!!!

October Bliss Posted: May 17, 2006 11:43 AM

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Mine is VERY involved in everything! There are things that he just goes with the flow on (like the horse and carriage that I really wanted) and gives me the 'whatever you want honey' but generally he is very involved and loves it!!

blueyes678 Posted: May 17, 2006 11:51 AM

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He's so good!! I know sometimes he could care less but he puts so much effort!!

kittythestray Posted: May 17, 2006 12:07 PM

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'OK, honey whatever you want' That's how I WANT it!!

krispyc Posted: May 17, 2006 12:27 PM

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He couldn't care less about the details. He has been involved with making the major decisions (i.e. vendors) otherwise getting him to care about anything wedding related is a challenge!

sarahthegreat Posted: May 17, 2006 12:33 PM

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you would think he was the bride. he is involved in every single aspect of the wedding - except my dress, he doesn't want to see it or know what it looks like.

and imo, he should be involved. its his wedding too and he needs to help make decisions about guest lists and what have you

scappy123 Posted: May 17, 2006 02:05 PM

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Posted by sami

Good Morning Is everyone Fh involved with every little aspect of your big day, or he is like okay honey whatever you want?

Do they all say this???? That is what I get every time I ask him something about the wedding!!!

The only thing he wanted to be involved in was the honeymoon

serendipity0680 Posted: May 17, 2006 02:08 PM

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he mostly says honey whatever you want. But he is involved in some aspects of the big day.

Katie&Chris2006 Posted: May 17, 2006 08:50 PM

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Posted by franksgirl323

Total groomzilla...involved, involved, involved...even when I wish he didnt have an opinion.

Same here...Tammy and I have decided that our groomzilla FH's were separated at birth.

It's very sweet though how involved he wants to be...sometimes though I wish I could make quick decisions!

anglbyme Posted: May 17, 2006 10:19 PM

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Fh pretty much says whatever you want just tell me when to be there! But he puts some of his 2 cents in.(sometimes iI just have to give it back!)

jes81276 Posted: May 18, 2006 06:56 AM

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FH has been involved with all the vendors...he has come to all the appts. and made alot of the phone calls. However, the small stuff I pretty much do. I show him, but he doesn't really care.

pigs222seal Posted: May 18, 2006 08:27 AM

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FH is involved is mostly everything, and I always get his opinion before moving forward - this is his day too...he even wants to go with me to my dress fittings. I don't think so!!!

R&J0806 Posted: May 18, 2006 09:51 AM

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he's ok with whatever I want. Can't say the same for his 'rents though....

M&LSept1606 Posted: May 18, 2006 10:10 AM

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he is involved with Everything except making my DIY projects. and even those he puts his two sense into.

It's nice, but sometimes annoying.

Aphrodite07 Posted: May 18, 2006 10:11 AM

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yeah mine too. totally involved!

superkat Posted: May 18, 2006 10:26 AM

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He is involved in paying for it

idovig Posted: May 18, 2006 10:26 AM

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he says ok and goes with it but then I hate when something comes up that is already taken cared for he has suggestions afterwards.

smara Posted: May 18, 2006 11:17 AM

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Posted by pigs222seal

FH is involved is mostly everything, and I always get his opinion before moving forward - this is his day too...he even wants to go with me to my dress fittings. I don't think so!!!

Me too... He keeps hinting that he will be happy to take me to my fitting -no way. He also described what he liked in a dress before I went shopping.

Two weeks ago he called from his BP in DR to ask me how did my Hair & MU trail go and if I was happy with the results. Yesterday he told me that when we go this Sat. to see out CP he isnt leaving until its absolutely the way he wants. I was like ok Groomzilla...