Is he involved with EVERYTHING?

sami Posted: May 17, 2006 08:19 AM

Is he involved with EVERYTHING?

Good Morning Is everyone Fh involved with every little aspect of your big day, or he is like okay honey whatever you want?

chesca Posted: May 17, 2006 08:25 AM

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Posted by sami

okay honey whatever you want?

Exactly what he says

sami Posted: May 17, 2006 08:29 AM

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i swear i cant with any of them they are so on my last nerve! These dam 'FH'

ewickens Posted: May 17, 2006 08:30 AM

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FH is getting more involved as the day draws nearer, but in a good way. We haven't crossed any bad lines and we both want the same thing, so I actually like the fact he's getting involved.

CaMacho Posted: May 17, 2006 08:45 AM

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He's very involved, but we agree on most things so it's been really easy and fun to plan with him!

RadioLau Posted: May 17, 2006 09:01 AM

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He is involved with EVERYTHING. Except my dress, shoes, veil, and anything else i might be wearing that day.

franksgirl323 Posted: May 17, 2006 09:02 AM

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Total groomzilla...involved, involved, involved...even when I wish he didnt have an opinion.

debsey75 Posted: May 17, 2006 09:03 AM

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I would say I do about 70% and he does about 30% (usually consists of him writing the checks ) But I am OK with that.
I try to show him everything before booking or buying. His main concerns were the food and music, after that I dont think he cares what I plan.

MayBride06 Posted: May 17, 2006 09:10 AM

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whatever I want!!

Chelle Posted: May 17, 2006 09:14 AM

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Posted by MayBride06

whatever I want!!

Same here

patticakes Posted: May 17, 2006 09:16 AM

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He's definitely involved and I love it! I need all the help I can get!

Maybride519 Posted: May 17, 2006 09:18 AM

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I asked him what he wanted to be involved with and we went from there. I didn't pressure him into being as involved as me because I know that as a 'guy' he would never be as excited about planning so I didn't want to force anything and make him miserable. He was happy with letting me make most of the decisions.

aliwnec10 Posted: May 17, 2006 09:19 AM

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i would say that he's pretty involved. I mean, i have to organize and plan things (appts), but he always wants to see whats going on next or the choices i've narrowed it down to. I would say that i do about 60% of everything, but i've also learned to leave him in charge of a few things (talking to the priest, taking to the manager for our RD, DJ, etc). I have to say i'm pretty lucky. He's really great about things and he never complains.

And half the time he says he doesn't have an opinion or that he might not necessarily care about one particular thing... but when given a few choices, he always ends up with an opinion! See i think that's the thing!!! I narrow down the choices on everything and then he chooses or gives his thoughts on it.

ali120206 Posted: May 17, 2006 09:27 AM

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Posted by chesca

Posted by sami

okay honey whatever you want?

Exactly what he says

My FH says that too.

Even though he says he isn't involved and doesn't care, he's taken an interest in things other than pictures and flowers. He also helped in planning my shower which was really cute (I know when it is because my BMs are from OOT).

VICKYLANE Posted: May 17, 2006 09:36 AM

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yes he is real involved, a real big pain in the a@@ ...

luvmypup Posted: May 17, 2006 09:38 AM

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the only thing my FH was involved in was the Photographer. Everything after that he could care less. I ask opinions and thats as far as it goes. I finally sucked it up and just asked my mom, FMIL, FSIL, and BM's for help b/c he is no good. OH well at least i get what i want out of this.

MrsR72806 Posted: May 17, 2006 09:44 AM

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Yeah, basically saying do whatever I want...

CLMon7906 Posted: May 17, 2006 09:47 AM

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Posted by chesca

Posted by sami

okay honey whatever you want?

Exactly what he says

yup!!! (until he sees or hears the idea, then he has an opinion... )

glinda_goodwitch Posted: May 17, 2006 09:50 AM

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He's involved a lot. He even went to Costco with me last night to buy supplies for the OOT bags. He helped pick table names (candies) and he's the one who organized the guest list. He's good like that. I do the really little details like buying ribbons for decoration, and I thought of all our BP gifts since I'm better at that type of thing than he is.

cindyandkevin Posted: May 17, 2006 10:00 AM

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I put him in charge of the DJ, tuxes, and HM and he took care of those on his own. Most things I did all the research and presented him with my final choices and asked for his thoughts/opinions. I know he would've been more involved all along but bc of our schedules it was kinda hard. Now that the big day is getting closer he's getting more involved bc he has to, like he got the GM gifts on his own and he called his guests that didn't RSVP.