....to send the invites more then 6-8 weeks in advance? I mentioned to a coworker that my wedding is may and I will send the invites early march since I wont send save the dat cards and because the wedding falls on memorial day weekend and she told me that is so tacky and very bad etiquette
RKellner
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I dont think its tacky at all... I think 6-8 weeks is just fine!
JimmysPants
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Even if you do 10 weeks earlier I dont see how that is bad etiquette. Does she even know the meaning of the word etiquette?
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Posted by Lilbride
....to send the invites more then 6-8 weeks in advance? I mentioned to a coworker that my wedding is may and I will send the invites early march since I wont send save the dat cards and because the wedding falls on memorial day weekend and she told me that is so tacky and very bad etiquette
UGHHH!! I hate that! Its not her wedding! Do whatever you want and think is best for you! and dont invite her....
MnM52607
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We just got married Memorial Day of this year and I sent out my invites 10 weeks in advance. It's a holiday weekend and wanted to give everyone some notice. We only gave out Save the Dates to immediate family at our engagement party.
I actually think it's common courtesy to give them advanced notice.
ETA: I wouldn't make your RSVP date 2 weeks before the wedding. You will have people that don't send it back. Don't listen to her LOL
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I sent mine out the middle of November for February. Has this co-worker of yours ever thrown a wedding?? I hate when people make comments when they dont even know how things work. It sounds fine to me.
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its not bad etiquette, but since u are not sending STD's i think u should send them at least 12 weeks b4...a lot of people go away that weekend. Its not 2 late 2 send STD's if your up 2 it.
kBr
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i think your coworker is obnoxious... tell her DONT WORRY, YOUR INVITE WONT BE SENT OUT THAT EARLY... AS A MATTER OF FACT- I WONT SEND IT AT ALL... HOWS THAT B*TCH?!??!?
i think 6-8 weeks is FINE
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I didn't send out save the dates either so i'll probably be sending them out like 10 weeks ahead of time. You figure the rsvp should be a month before, and you give them a month to think about it meaning standard is 8 weeks. Don't worry... especially if you have a huge list like me, you'll want that little extra time!
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i dont think so , i am sending them at th end of Feb with an RSVP of april 10th
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Posted by MJDoc12
tell your co-worker she's out of the loop.
not rude at all---you are having your wedding on a holiday wknd, therefore you have every right to send them out early!!!
