Is it bad that I'm upset that my MOH hasn't talked about the bachelorette party?

Is it bad that I'm upset that my MOH hasn't talked about the bachelorette party?

I don't know if I should plan it myself or wait?

If I wait I'm afraid it won't happen and I really want to go out with my girls......

Re: Is it bad that I'm upset that my MOH hasn't talked about the bachelorette party?

Don't feel bad I haven't had my shower yet

Re: Is it bad that I'm upset that my MOH hasn't talked about the bachelorette party?

Just casually say something along the lines of, 'I can't wait for my bachelorette party! I'm in such need of a good girls night out.' See where it goes. Look at her facial expression. If she smirks, you know it's coming soon. If she looks puzzled, she's either the best MOH bc she can keep a really good secret, or she's completely clueless. I doubt they haven't planned anything though because even if your MOH isn't aware of the tradition, I'm sure someone in your BP or family is.

Re: Is it bad that I'm upset that my MOH hasn't talked about the bachelorette party?

I was the person who coordinated my own: shower, the bacheroletts night out, the bachelors night out and the rehersal dinner. Sometimes it's just easier beacause you are the one person who has everyone's phone numbers. And the point person for everyone to call. Besides that, it causes less friction amoung everone else, where opinons of when, where, what time etc....I know it made everone's life easier.

Cheer-up, there are no rules, there is nothing wrong with you starting the planning, sometimes they may not know what excatly you would like to do......

I made it very easy for my BP and even eliminated the limo's to help them save money, which they appreciated.

Re: Is it bad that I'm upset that my MOH hasn't talked about the bachelorette party?

definitely slyly mention it .. if you don't feel comfortable saying that you're excited about it coming up .. just say that you'd love to party with your girls one last time before the wedding and see what she says. she may not have planned anything yet but may get the hint when you say that (so the sooner the better!). i went through a similar situation .. in my case my MOM brought it up to my friend! (i didnt tell her to!). but i had a great shower so i cant complain good luck!

Re: Is it bad that I'm upset that my MOH hasn't talked about the bachelorette party?

Offer her suggestions of things you would like to do, 'in case she needed help'. Then see where the conversation goes from there.