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Is it bad to get in trouble at pre cana?

Jen2999 Posted:

Is it bad to get in trouble at pre cana?

HAHAHAHHA

SO last night we go to our second pre cana class and they were talking alot of families and finicial stuff. We after each talk they give us worksheets and the girl have to go sit in one place and the guys in another and then when you are done you meet back up and discuss them.

Anyway since money is a touchy subject the three ladies I was sitting with at the table and I started yapping away and all of the sudden the preist and all the couples are staring at us. Everyone else had finished and we were sitting there talking. He was like 'well we are glad you guys are getting to know one another, but your really supposed to be discussing this stuff with your fiance's'

I was SOOOOO embarassed!!!!!!

So yea, thats prety bad right?
seta Posted:

Re: Is it bad to get in trouble at pre cana?

who cares???? don't even worry about it!!!!!
I am sure it was amusing for the other couples


I am not looking forward to precana...it is important for me to marry in a church, but i am not religious..i am not too thrilled about being probed about my feelings on marriage, finance and family!!!!!

I'm sure in the end it is meaningful, but i am nervous about it!!!!!
Jen2999 Posted:

Re: Is it bad to get in trouble at pre cana?


Posted by seta

who cares???? don't even worry about it!!!!!
I am sure it was amusing for the other couples


I am not looking forward to precana...it is important for me to marry in a church, but i am not religious..i am not too thrilled about being probed about my feelings on marriage, finance and family!!!!!

I'm sure in the end it is meaningful, but i am nervous about it!!!!!



See it isnt that bad at ALL for us because we have a group of like 30 couples so we never have to talk to anyone other than our FI's
mtdr1106 Posted:

Re: Is it bad to get in trouble at pre cana?

i have never been to pre-cana yet - but i don't think that is bad - i think its HYSTERICAL!!!

as long as you were not asked to leave - your ok.

i went to catholic school - do you know how many priests have asked me to shut up through out the years?? i wouldn't sweat it...
seta Posted:

Re: Is it bad to get in trouble at pre cana?


Posted by Jen2999


Posted by seta

who cares???? don't even worry about it!!!!!
I am sure it was amusing for the other couples


I am not looking forward to precana...it is important for me to marry in a church, but i am not religious..i am not too thrilled about being probed about my feelings on marriage, finance and family!!!!!

I'm sure in the end it is meaningful, but i am nervous about it!!!!!



See it isnt that bad at ALL for us because we have a group of like 30 couples so we never have to talk to anyone other than our FI's



your lucky... i think mine may be smaller...
SummerBride06 Posted:

Re: Is it bad to get in trouble at pre cana?

i'm definitely going to get in trouble--but for a different reason. i am so anti-church and anything NFP that i know i'm going to shoot my mouth off and get myself in trouble. my FH is already warning me because he knows how intolerant i am when it comes to the church.

i think it's hysterical what you did! why not have a good time?
cmastro25 Posted:

Re: Is it bad to get in trouble at pre cana?


Posted by Jen2999

HAHAHAHHA

SO last night we go to our second pre cana class and they were talking alot of families and finicial stuff. We after each talk they give us worksheets and the girl have to go sit in one place and the guys in another and then when you are done you meet back up and discuss them.

Anyway since money is a touchy subject the three ladies I was sitting with at the table and I started yapping away and all of the sudden the preist and all the couples are staring at us. Everyone else had finished and we were sitting there talking. He was like 'well we are glad you guys are getting to know one another, but your really supposed to be discussing this stuff with your fiance's'

I was SOOOOO embarassed!!!!!!




So yea, thats prety bad right?


Jen, I feel like I'm back in Catholic Grammar School. Ha-Ha! Too funny! You're an adult. What are they going to do, make you write 'I will not talk in class' 100 times?
BJandDan Posted:

Re: Is it bad to get in trouble at pre cana?

did the ruler come out from his robes?? dont sweat it!

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