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Do you girls think its fair if I am gonna ask all of my BMs to have their hair up, since I am wearing mine half up?? Plsssss advice :)
It's very generous of you to pay for their dresses... in a case like this, it is not unfair to ask. However, I agree with Barb and some of the others on here... not everyone looks their best with their hairup and not everyone is comfortable with their hair up for that reason. I know myself and I want my ladies in their best mood all day/night. So think about it, ask them, and then decide.
Posted by MarjorieFrank
I think it is totally fair to ask them to have their hair a certain way. I have been in bridal parties many times and I never assumed I would do my hair the way I wanted to do it, I would always do whatever the bride asked. I think most girls would assume the bride would tell them how it should be done. JMO.
As a bride, I am making sure my BM's hair is totally different than mine.
Posted by Nichole2010
its your day and you probably have a vision for that day.
and you are paying for there dresses?!?!
damnn, thye should be willing to do that for youu
Yes, it's totally ok to ask them to do that
Posted by Lu2700
i dont think it's too much to ask....u'll just have to deal with it if ur ever in one of THEIR weddingsi've been in weddings where i had to wear my hair up, not a certain way, just and updo...and to be honest i really didnt think bad of the bride...it's her special day!
as for what i'm going to be doing with my BMs, i think i'm going to have them wear their hair how they want. i think it's enough that theyre going to be wearing the same color dresses (not the same styles tho).....hmmm now that i think of it, i seem to be a pretty easy going bride!![]()
since all my girls are getting their hair done, i asked them all to agree whether to have it all up or all down.....i just didn't want some girls with it up and some down, so i think its fine to ask them.
thank you girls!!!
I am not having their hair the same unless they want it that way considering they are paying for it. Plus I always think to when my sil made me wear my hair a certain way and I hated it so I would not ask my girls to do something they were not comfortable with. But that’s JMO
I dont see a problem with it at all. If the girls are all going to different salons to get it done you probably should supply a picture b/c each person will interpret a style differently.
YES DEF MINE ARE ALL WEARING THERS DOWN!
I think its fine, and since u are payin for their dresses I think its totally reasonable to ask that they pay for their hair...
I personally don't think it's unreasonable. When I was in the wedding party, I didn't mind if I was told what way to wear my hair. For my wedding though, I won't tell them to wear it a certain way as long as they wear what looks best on them.
Posted by CloudNine
if you really want that then i guess its not a big deal but what is the reasoning? do you think if they wear their hair half up they will outshine you? not gonna happen
no one outshines the bride.
my only issue would be, dont you want your girls to be comfortable? what if they hate their hair up? and what if they dont look good with it up? then they wont look as cute in your pictures lol
I think its ok for you to have them all wear their hair a certain way - its your wedding. They wear the dress you want them to wear, the color you want them to wear, the shoes, etc - why should hair be any different!!
