Is it horrible...

DanaRenee Posted: Aug 30, 2006 01:34 PM

Is it horrible...

That I sent an old friend a save the date, but I am thinking about not inviting her.... i haven't talked to her in months.

We just don't have the room now?!

stephanief Posted: Aug 30, 2006 01:40 PM

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Honestly, I think you have to invite her but that is just IMHO

Maybe she will respond 'no'

thelastresort Posted: Aug 30, 2006 01:41 PM

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Yeah, I think you have to invite her.

NY031978 Posted: Aug 30, 2006 01:41 PM

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can you call her or email her and tell her flat out that hey listen our #s are higher then we thought and im going too have too cut out friends. Say we barely talk so i didnt think you would mind too be the 1st off the list hahaha...ok say it nicer!! But ya get the idea

i have a few of those as well.....we are at a loss! im prob goin to have them anyway..kinda feel like thats the 'right' thing to do!

kimnsteve Posted: Aug 30, 2006 01:41 PM

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Ok so I am going to be honest....I think it's pretty rude ...maybe she won't respond since you haven't talked in awhile but at least send the invite

ali120206 Posted: Aug 30, 2006 01:44 PM

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I think you should invite her because you sent her the STD. I have a friend who I'd like to cut as well but, I feel that I'm obligated to invite her since I sent her a STD.

D's Girl Posted: Aug 30, 2006 01:47 PM

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Invite her, IMO always be the bigger person

I am invited some girls that I have not spoke to in years, if they come they come, if they don't I know I tried and reached out

hayleyandsteve Posted: Aug 30, 2006 02:25 PM

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i think you should invite her.... the save the date implies that they'll be invited.. otherwise there was no need for them to 'save' that date... just my opinion!

dianadrw Posted: Aug 30, 2006 02:39 PM

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I'm in the same situation. But I am just going to suck it up and invite them. I think that's the right thing to do.

snydl40 Posted: Aug 30, 2006 04:37 PM

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I would send the invite.

JIFFY Posted: Aug 30, 2006 04:39 PM

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Posted by NY031978

can you call her or email her and tell her flat out that hey listen our #s are higher then we thought and im going too have too cut out friends. Say we barely talk so i didnt think you would mind too be the 1st off the list hahaha...ok say it nicer!! But ya get the idea

i have a few of those as well.....we are at a loss! im prob goin to have them anyway..kinda feel like thats the 'right' thing to do!

That's awesome!

dancinmyazoff Posted: Aug 30, 2006 04:40 PM

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I think you need to invite her especially with the STD card. She'll probably respond no...if you're lucky

CLMon7906 Posted: Aug 30, 2006 04:47 PM

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Just invite her...she might say no....and so many others likely will as well...so you just might end up with room for her if she does say yes after all.