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IS IT JUST ME
BLONDIE2510456
Posted: Apr 16, 2006 11:55 AM+

Posted: Apr 16, 2006 11:55 AM
IS IT JUST ME
IS IT JUST ME THAT IM NOT HAPPY OR MAYBE IM JUST NERVOUS
DandS
Posted: Apr 16, 2006 12:50 PM+

Posted: Apr 16, 2006 12:50 PM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
I am sure it is just that you are nervous! However, you really need to talk to you FH and decide what you want to do.
lipglossjunky73
Posted: Apr 16, 2006 01:30 PM+

Posted: Apr 16, 2006 01:30 PM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
Well - there may be issues about the wedding planning making you unhappy - that happened to me in the beginning - if you are still happy with FH, thats all that matters...
BLONDIE2510456
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 03:30 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 03:30 PM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
HEY THANKS I QUESS ITS JUST THE WEDDING PLANNING I REALLY DIDNT WANT A BIG WEDDING BECAUSE I JUST DIDNT WANT TO DEAL WITH THE PEOPLE BUT NO IM HAPPY BESIDES WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 16 YRS WITH 3 KIDS.
BLONDIE2510456
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 03:31 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 03:31 PM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
THANKS
DandS
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 03:53 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 03:53 PM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
Posted by BLONDIE2510456
HEY THANKS I QUESS ITS JUST THE WEDDING PLANNING I REALLY DIDNT WANT A BIG WEDDING BECAUSE I JUST DIDNT WANT TO DEAL WITH THE PEOPLE BUT NO IM HAPPY BESIDES WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 16 YRS WITH 3 KIDS.![]()
Well I am very happy to hear that you are happy with FH! The planning can get crazy sometimes, but try not to let it get you down. After all, it is planning for the day that you will marry your best friend!!!
sarahradio5
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 04:09 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 04:09 PM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
I've been noticing that I can get VERY down lately. I start crying while I'm driving for no reason whatsover! But, I just chalk it up to the wedding planning stress... and when I walk in the door, I tell my FH that I'm sad - and I get a hug. That makes it a little better, but I just feel like I'm PMSing ALL THE TIME now. I know how you feel... I'm assuming it's 'normal.'
BLONDIE2510456
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 08:13 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 08:13 PM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
hey i know we r suppose to be happy i think we r just stress thats all u know. my problem is the people telling what i want dont u hate that.
BLONDIE2510456
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 08:16 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 08:16 PM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
any way whats your wedding theme r u finish planning
sarahradio5
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 08:50 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 08:50 PM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
I don't really have a running 'theme'. Just roses and hearts... and the reception is at the beach, so that's a bit of a theme. I just have the DIY projects left that scare the crap out of me.What about you?
lipglossjunky73
Posted: Apr 17, 2006 11:44 PM+

Posted: Apr 17, 2006 11:44 PM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
Posted by BLONDIE2510456
HEY THANKS I QUESS ITS JUST THE WEDDING PLANNING I REALLY DIDNT WANT A BIG WEDDING BECAUSE I JUST DIDNT WANT TO DEAL WITH THE PEOPLE BUT NO IM HAPPY BESIDES WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 16 YRS WITH 3 KIDS.![]()
my goodness - if you can handle all the stress of 3 kids, a wedding should be CAKE...
Preshy7
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 04:56 AM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 04:56 AM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
i havent exaclty been a fun bride throughout this planning..i find it stressful and to be honest i wish people would just leave me alone and let me do what i want....im sick of peoples opinions..or telling me 'well this person did that! you should do that!' umm no i will do what i want!i am one of those people that cant wait to be on her honeymoon and away from the people that trigger my stress....
wedding planning is NOT fun and thank goodness its over....
BLONDIE2510456
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 07:14 AM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 07:14 AM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
hey good morning i know what u r feeling thats y im like this dont get me wrong i dont mind people input but if there not giving anything y should they give any u know im just trying not to blow up im like this is my day and it dosent feel that way u know.
BLONDIE2510456
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 07:15 AM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 07:15 AM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
yes it is stress ful but u know the wedding is more stressful because u have to deal with people
BLONDIE2510456
Posted: Apr 18, 2006 07:18 AM+

Posted: Apr 18, 2006 07:18 AM
Re: IS IT JUST ME
thats cool mine is butterfly were giving out live butterflies after the church because i hate rice and the bubbles so we went with that theme.Welcome New Vendors
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