To WANT to TTC but then when you are get scared? LOL
I have been PG twice, had a stillborn at 7 months and a miscarriage, so I KNOW what its like to be PG, BUT suddenly Im scared?
FH wanted us to start trying now. I mean we just stopped using protection last week, weddings in a few days, and then he feels we have no reason to wait.
BUT, I was so stressed with the wedding, I'm afraid if I get PG right away it will be like no break for me? BUT...I really truly want to start a family NOW, am completly ready.
Why do I feel so mixed up?
btrflygrl
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OMG..so feeling that!! Give me a hug!! I miscarried in Dec and DH just sprung it on me that he wants to start trying again (we were planning for the summer). While I enjoyed the few weeks I was PG and I want to be PG again....I'm SO terrified! I don't want to miscarry again....I'm worried about money, I'm worried about being a good mom and having time for everything! Plus, none of my family is here in GA with me.
But...I know when it's right, it's right.
TracyInQueens
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I am so sorry for what you've been through and of course you're going to be scared. I think that's normal. We won't be TTC for several months but I think about it all the time and I am extremely nervous about so many different aspects of being pg. Good luck!
lilmrs
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Donna- YES YES YES! Very normal! We both know that it suc ks to have m/c's...if you ever want to talk over your fears with me, feel free to send me a FM! I think I can help.
brideinapril
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Considering all that you've been through (which is more than most ) I'd have to say your fears are very normal. I'm scared and I haven't had a miscarriage, so I can't even begin to know what you are going through.
jcndd
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I'm so sorry to hear yoy've had to go through that! I had a mc in October and am 11 wekks PG now. And TERRIFIED every day. I think it's completely normal to feel those feelings before you get PG and WHILE you're pg. I wish you lots of happiness for your next pregnancy!!!
MrsJ
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Donna don't worry! It's normal, especially after what you have been through - and also the stress of plannign a wedding. Just concentrate on your wedding...in FIVE DAYS!!! And everything else will come naturally. Good luck TTC and have a WONDERFUL WEDDING!!!!
dm24angel
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Thanks guys..I tried to talk to FH a little about it tonight., kinda hoping I would at least make it to my 30th ( In may) and then try harder, but We shall see what happens, just feels so weird to be wondering if I want this or not, when I've wanted it ( and have had it taken away from me) for so many years...
