Is it normal...

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Posted by Becca2010

I love it Janis!!! I could totally pull it off too... MAYBE!

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seriously, i am good at figuring out excuses for stuff like this. let me know if you need other ideas! haha

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Posted by little j

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Posted by Becca2010

I love it Janis!!! I could totally pull it off too... MAYBE!

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seriously, i am good at figuring out excuses for stuff like this. let me know if you need other ideas! haha

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Prior to the wedding I was in such a funk just like that. I was constantly slacking at work, fighting with DH for no reason at all, giving attitude. Even my mom said that it was like dealing with a 13 year old kid again. The week of the wedding, all I did was cry. DH briefly said that if I didn't get out of the funk after the wedding was over I had to seek medical attention or we would be in big trouble.

Let me tell you the morning of the wedding, I woke up like a new person. I was happy & excited to be getting married. I wasn't worried about colors being wrong, money, if people where going to show up, etc. I just told myself that I had to enjoy the day. As soon as the ceremony was over DH commented on how much happier I looked.

I am so happy to not be planning the wedding anymore. Its a weight lifted off my shoulders. No more wedding stress, no more crazy people calling me complaining, no more having pennies left in my checking account & no more sleepless nights.

It will go away, just hang in their.

I totally understand what you are feeling - I have kind of been the same way lately, and the only thing I want to do is hang out with Baby Anthony.......haven't had any wedding planning desire or anything.......also some personal things with friends as well.........

Try to take a few days off and not do anything wedding related and just hang out; mani/pedi, beach, etc.......maybe its just a little tiff you are going through! Hang in there - we are all here for you!

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Posted by Becca2010

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Posted by GR2010

It happens. Usually that is when I know I need to take a few days off for 'me' time.

ETA: Play hookie on Monday!! I'm not working we'll do fun girlie things.

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Awww That's such a nice idea! I don't think I can though. FH doesn't approve of 'personal' days and will just tell me I'm being lazy. I'd need a 'reason' to take off. He's so ridiculous sometimes, I want to just hurt him A LOT.

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Booo FH. Sometimes you need it. There is such a thing as getting burnt out!!! Tell him the 'reason' is that you might kill his mother if you don't take a break from that place!!!

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Posted by GR2010

Booo FH. Sometimes you need it. There is such a thing as getting burnt out!!! Tell him the 'reason' is that you might kill his mother if you don't take a break from that place!!!

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He knows I might do that anyway! That's nothing new!

You know what's crazy? I imitate his mother, you know, I kinda make fun of her. I used to feel bad about doing it in front of FH, but now he does it too!!!!!!!!!!!!

you need time for yourself! Just go to the park, beach or window shop for NWR things.

Make Becca Time!!