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is it normal...

Fianag24 Posted:

is it normal...

that i had an easier time finding my dress than finding a bridesmaid dress for my girls?

Jill52787 Posted:

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Same thing with me!

Those b!tches didn't like anything!
Fianag24 Posted:

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hahaha so true! one will like something, others will hate it. gonna put them all in 80s style puffy sleeve number and maybe then they will shut it lol
MrsCtoBe5512 Posted:

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well think of it this way - with your dress you are fitting your taste with the general theme/feeling of the wedding... with the BM dresses you're trying to fit your taste in with theme and *trying* not to piss off anyone who will be wearing it (although, some people will never be happy haha). good luck!

pjt212301 Posted:

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Posted by Jill52787

Same thing with me!

Those b!tches didn't like anything!



THIS!!!!!!!!!!!
PaddysGirl Posted:

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Posted by MrsCtoBe5512

well think of it this way - with your dress you are fitting your taste with the general theme/feeling of the wedding... with the BM dresses you're trying to fit your taste in with theme and *trying* not to piss off anyone who will be wearing it (although, some people will never be happy haha). good luck!



This exactly.
JNB818 Posted:

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I am not looking forward to looking for dresses for my BM lol

MrsCtoBe5512 Posted:

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i took into consideration what I wanted them to have(in terms of color and fabric) and then I took two of my non-picky BMs shopping. they found something they were cool with (but they are also awesome and were like 'Whatever you want!'), but then another BM had a problem with it since it was strapless. I was crazy nervous to go shopping with that one because i knew she'd be hard to please and also because I thought well what if she found something she loved but I didn't like- then I would have to tell her basically I want her input but only to a certain extent. She ended up loving one that worked for me too, so that worked out. but at one point i went shopping by myself and tried the dresses on to see if I was comfortable. If I wasn't, I knew I didn't want to put my BMs through it. that might be a good starting point.

pixietina Posted:

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Luckily I had an easy time with both.

MsMagztobe Posted:

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Posted by Jill52787

Same thing with me!

Those b!tches didn't like anything!



ITA same thing here
FutureMrsGTL Posted:

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I had a pretty easy time with both. Fortunately my BM's all agreed really easily.

Bride2Be78 Posted:

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Posted by Jill52787

Same thing with me!

Those b!tches didn't like anything!



LOL

Lord can't wait to start the hunt for the BM dresses. I hope its painless LOL
jenclifwed Posted:

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me too! Its really hard to get everyone together to go try stuff on. I'm already really confused about what i want them to wear. I'm torn between long or short dresses!
Fianag24 Posted:

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basically right now all but one are in love with a dress but one BM hates it and is playing the 'it wont look good on me' card. Im trying to be reasonable but starting to come to terms with the fact that there is no way everyone will like a dress but i feel bad making somoneone wear and pay for a dress they dont like

Blonde_Glitz Posted:

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Posted by Jill52787

Same thing with me!

Those b!tches didn't like anything!



This!
bella_bride Posted:

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Same here!

LaBellaVita7712 Posted:

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BM dresses were the first thing I picked!

jtbride2012 Posted:

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Posted by pixietina

Luckily I had an easy time with both.



Same
LBCJRS1125 Posted:

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Had such a hard time trying to find a dress in the color, then scrapped the color for a dress that looked good on my MOH, then wasn't happy because I didn't have the color....so hard!!! My MOH tried on like 50 dresses...it was that difficult!

oct13bride Posted:

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I was going to let them decide on the dresses as long as it was in the color I wanted but have now decided I am just going to pick the dress & hopefully they like it if they don't it's only for one day they should be able to deal.

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