is it ok
to be annoyed?
fhs aunt and uncle got their invite-addressed to them on outer envelope. On the inner envelope was their names and their children names. They claim that their inner envelope didnt have the children names and they were very hurt that the children weren't invited. So they had fhs grandmother call fhs mother to see if the children were invited-we assured her that they were and that the names never go on the outer envelope and if it wasn't on inner envelope than there was just a mix up and mistake.
Yesterday we went to fmils house to see her dress(which she didn't even have there bc she took it to get hemmed-when I told her not to bc I wanted to see it first) well she said they were very hurt and fh called and spoke with his uncle and he got nasty and said that he would have to speak with his wife but they already sent the response card. (they got invites on friday) So now they aren't coming. Its his mothers only sibling. I think they are overreacting. I cant believe they would think we didn't invite the kids-we actually were going to even include them in the ceremony-but didn't get a chance to ask yet. Seems like something else is up and they are just blaming the invite. We were having another invite made up for them but it takes time. What was their big rush to send it back. Im annoyed and I feel bad for fh.
Come to think of it they never really were happy when we got engaged.
fhs aunt and uncle got their invite-addressed to them on outer envelope. On the inner envelope was their names and their children names. They claim that their inner envelope didnt have the children names and they were very hurt that the children weren't invited. So they had fhs grandmother call fhs mother to see if the children were invited-we assured her that they were and that the names never go on the outer envelope and if it wasn't on inner envelope than there was just a mix up and mistake.
Yesterday we went to fmils house to see her dress(which she didn't even have there bc she took it to get hemmed-when I told her not to bc I wanted to see it first) well she said they were very hurt and fh called and spoke with his uncle and he got nasty and said that he would have to speak with his wife but they already sent the response card. (they got invites on friday) So now they aren't coming. Its his mothers only sibling. I think they are overreacting. I cant believe they would think we didn't invite the kids-we actually were going to even include them in the ceremony-but didn't get a chance to ask yet. Seems like something else is up and they are just blaming the invite. We were having another invite made up for them but it takes time. What was their big rush to send it back. Im annoyed and I feel bad for fh.
Come to think of it they never really were happy when we got engaged.
