Re: Is it Ok That Your Fh/Dh does the Dasterdly Deed?
Which Deed? Self gratification?
i dont even think about. I assume he did it before he met me and after. So I really don't care if he does it again. *shrug* It's really not that big of a deal.
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Well you are right on w/the question Thanks for the response
kptoys
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Since being pregnant my sex drive is out the window. I practically hand DH his bottle of body wash in the shower and tell him to have a good time
allure
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OMG Karen I am Lmao I love a confident woman especially a preggo one
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Posted by Xelindrya
Which Deed? Self gratification?
i dont even think about. I assume he did it before he met me and after. So I really don't care if he does it again. *shrug* It's really not that big of a deal.
I try not to think about it
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I totally caught DH the other morning. He thought I was sleeping and I walked in on him. Needless to say, I was mortified! I don't mind, especially when my sex drive has been in the toliet lately, but I DO NOT want to witness the event!
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hmmmmmm.......i dont know why people make such a BIG deal about this topic............maybe people can tell me why they have such a big deal with it.........
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Yes, he does.. and it doesn't bother me one bit.. I think if i walked in on him, he'd die from embarrassment..
btrflygrl
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I don't know if he does it when I'm not around, but he tells me he used to (when we weren't living in the same house when dating)
Let him do it....I don't care...especially as of late...his 'appetite' seems to be voracious!
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I don't know - I was under the assumption that all men and yes even women - do this. I thought it was normal, I don't know, I don't think there is anything wrong with it and I don't mind a bit!!!
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More Power to Him!!!! If I ain't giving it to him, I'd rather he do it himself than go somewhere else!! Not that he ever would!!
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I know my hubby does it.. caught him once, and found the 'evidence' once. Gross! I don't care that he does, esp. since I just had a baby so sex went RIGHT out the window for like 6 mo. I just don't want to know about it or SEE it.
allure
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Intresting Ladies thanks fro the responses
jannshari
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Sure it's OK. In fact, it takes the pressure off of me when I would much rather be sleeping. I would rather him do what he's got to do to be satisfied and happy than leaving him hanging (no pun intended) and frustrated!
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It never bothered me before, but now that we are living together, I'd hope that he'd at least see if I'm interested first. . . If i'm not around, who cares.
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I would honestly worry about him if he didn't.
And like a few others of you have said, it takes the pressure off me, when I'm feeling like a bloated lump.
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now that we are living together, I'd hope that he'd at least see if I'm interested first. .
That's cute!
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Posted by tourist
It never bothered me before, but now that we are living together, I'd hope that he'd at least see if I'm interested first. . . If i'm not around, who cares.
I agree
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Posted by BMD'sPeanut
Posted by tourist
now that we are living together, I'd hope that he'd at least see if I'm interested first. .
