Is it Ok That Your Fh/Dh does the Dasterdly Deed?

Original post by allure

Aug 05, 2004 11:10 PM

Just curious how you ladies feel about this

Kriss2c Posted: Aug 06, 2004 10:21 AM

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Posted by maiahsdad

hmmmmmm.......i dont know why people make such a BIG deal about this topic............maybe people can tell me why they have such a big deal with it.........

I agree.... I don't see a big deal with it at all..

I still do it from time to time.

darly Posted: Aug 06, 2004 10:54 AM

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this is crazy
he's (almost) married, not dead
as long as he has a pulse, he'll be doing it

doesn't bother me--i always ask when he does it we laugh b/c he pics a diff. girl (in his head) every week

prncssrachel Posted: Aug 06, 2004 10:55 AM

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Oh my! my virgin eyes!

allure Posted: Aug 06, 2004 12:04 PM

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darly there is nothing crazy about this question,it's just another thread looking for different points of view

Emma2-22 Posted: Aug 06, 2004 12:05 PM

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To be totally honest I don't mind if he does it. But if he knows that I want some action and does it anyway then I have a royal problem.

darly Posted: Aug 06, 2004 12:14 PM

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I don't mean crazy like mentally ill -- don't be so touchy!!

I guess when I think of Dastardly, I think of like leaving the toilet seat up!
To me that's worse than watching him do it--I don't mind at all -- plus, it relieves stress and b/f the wedding, it's a good thing I get home 30 min. later than he does!

My point of view is that it's just human nature and if he didn't do it, I would be concerned...they say they don't but I know they do -- I hear him talk to his friends...

allure Posted: Aug 06, 2004 12:15 PM

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Gotcha

darly Posted: Aug 06, 2004 12:18 PM

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I think it's great that we can talk like this!
You think my mom talked like that when she ws getting married to my dad? NO Way!

allure Posted: Aug 06, 2004 12:26 PM

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Posted by darly

I think it's great that we can talk like this!
You think my mom talked like that when she ws getting married to my dad? NO Way!

That is the truth

nan&dave Posted: Aug 06, 2004 12:53 PM

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Not a problem.

diamondgrlie Posted: Aug 06, 2004 02:20 PM

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Fine with me 100% in fact I think its a little sexy and kinky... I am twisted, I know.

jessnjoey Posted: Aug 06, 2004 02:46 PM

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Posted by allure

Posted by darly

I think it's great that we can talk like this!
You think my mom talked like that when she ws getting married to my dad? NO Way!

That is the truth

Hell we used to have good conversation like this on the boards before..

What the heck is going on though --is everyone on here a prude???

Your Dh or FH is going to do it...and YOU SHOULD BE DOING IT TOO ALONE !!!!

as well as together...

Ladies it's natural and the more open you are to his sexual needs to stronger your relationship will be...

being embarrassed or Hiding it, or not thinking about it..is ridiculous!!!!! It won't go away!

heidla Posted: Aug 06, 2004 02:48 PM

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Posted by jessnjoey

Posted by allure

Posted by darly

I think it's great that we can talk like this!
You think my mom talked like that when she ws getting married to my dad? NO Way!

That is the truth

Hell we used to have good conversation like this on the boards before..

What the heck is going on though --is everyone on here a prude???

Your Dh or FH is going to do it...and YOU SHOULD BE DOING IT TOO ALONE !!!!

as well as together...

Ladies it's natural and the more open you are to his sexual needs to stronger your relationship will be...

being embarrassed or Hiding it, or not thinking about it..is ridiculous!!!!! It won't go away!

Yeah!!! I agree!!!

jessnjoey Posted: Aug 06, 2004 02:51 PM

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I'm curious what the guys have to say!!!!

don424 Posted: Aug 06, 2004 02:55 PM

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i'm a guy

what's the question again?

jessnjoey Posted: Aug 06, 2004 02:58 PM

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Allure asked if the ladies minded that their men 'self gratify'

Some women responded that they don't want to think about it or are embarrassed to 'catch' him?

Opinions..thoughts???

don424 Posted: Aug 06, 2004 03:02 PM

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not thinking about it won't make it go away

and as much as they say all guys do it, most women do it, but are afraid to admit it

and what's so embarrassing about catching him -- i would think that would be a plus

you could join and since he's already got the motor started it's less work for you to do