On Saturday FH step sister went to look at places to get married. She went to a bunch of different places but loved WM (Where I am getting married). On Sunday FH's dad called and said YAY they booked WM. I was really upset. I felt like they could have picked anywhere else but they picked there. They are getting married July 4th and were getting married Feb 14th so it is a little bit away but I still feel like 1. they should have said are you ok with this and 2. could have picked liked a 100 other places. I know part of me is upset because we could not afford a summer wedding and now they all of a sudden can for her. Maybe I am just being to emotional.
I need advice from you girls.
TIA
meg922
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I understand how you feel, but as the other posters said, your wedding will be first and her wedding will not do anything to diminish yours. Even if you have some overlap of guests, just keep in mind, that they'll be using your wedding as the standard with which to compare hers, not the other way around.
mbscheer
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Thanks everybody!! That is why you are all so amazing! You can make a situation that really upset me and show me the bright side.
Thanks so much
Nichole2010
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i dont understand why brides cant be more respectful to other brides...
i know that i would never do something like that to someone...its rude. and you have every right to be upset
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Posted by Nichole2010
i dont understand why brides cant be more respectful to other brides...
i know that i would never do something like that to someone...its rude. and you have every right to be upset
ITA ID BE P***** OFF
Kimbalina
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Are they in diffrent rooms?
And I would be sooooo happy with Valentines Day!!! How romantic!!
Yankees2323
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ok Honestly i would be pissed lol... butttttttt don't let them stress you out.. they are copying your place!!! and u do have the most romantic day of the yr!!!! your wedding is going to be a thousand times better....
Nina1010
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I can understand why you'd be upset...on both accounts...but you booked first, everyone knows it. winter to summer...very diff atmospheres. You have the whole Romantic Day of the Year thing on your side too. So...if she's okay trying to live up to your amazing wedding...let her.
mbscheer
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Are they in diffrent rooms?
And I would be sooooo happy with Valentines Day!!! How romantic!!
Same room She will have some of it outside though because it is summer. So in that way it will be different.
asg450
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I completely understand how you are feeling, but like KRISTIND said, you're getting married on the most romantic day of the year. You just plan your wedding and enjoy your special day. Don't worry about other people. Make your wedding something to remember.
Alyssa79
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i'd be extremely annoyed. i purposely stayed away from the Crest Hollow b/c of my bro even though that was 5 years ago and the Fox Hollow b/c of my cousin even though that was 6 years ago.
However, FF is where our friends were married at in 2008 and I HAD to ask their permission b/c i felt funny. They took it as a compliment (you know who you are biotch lol)
they should've asked you 1st.....that's just a respect thing in my book .
i'm sorry sweetie
JoanneAndJustin
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It's OK to be upset! I'd probably be upset than be mad at myself for being upset and try to be happy for whomever it was getting married at my hall.
This sorta thing kind of happened to us, in reverse. FH and I had a friend who was engaged and set to get married in May of 2009. When we got engaged she was away at Law school in MI, and really busy. We had thought FOR SURE her wedding was at Crest Hollow Country Club -- It wasn't, it was Fox Hollow. Turns out they broke off the engagement over the summer so no harm no foul, but I feel bad talking about our wedding with her, like it makes her sad that she's not getting married.
Plus, she deserves what she gets after getting back together with the guy, but that's a rant for another day.
i see your point i would be upset also. but yours is first and it is gonna be amazing. just think when hers is here and yours will be more special cause the guests are will be on a been there done that type of situation when they go to hers. dont worry your day will be amazing
Bridezillla2010
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yours is first ...
going through a similair thing ... thats what people say to me ...
You're wedding is first, they should feel like idiots for booking the same place, everyone is going to wonder why they did that. I'd try not to be too upset about it...
