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Is it o.k. to say......(Creative RSVP Wording)

siffleuse319 Posted:

Is it o.k. to say......(Creative RSVP Wording)

on your RSVP card:
'___ seats have been reserved in your honor'.

This could seriously eliminate many of my troubles before they arise. I'm hoping that you ladies think this has an air of formality as opposed to downright rude.
Katie&Chris2006 Posted:

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Posted by siffleuse319

on your RSVP card:
'___ seats have been reserved in your honor'.

This could seriously eliminate many of my troubles before they arise. I'm hoping that you ladies think this has an air of formality as opposed to downright rude.



I did this and everyone told me what a good idea it was. who knows what they were saying behind my back but i would rather that than have any confrontations about who was and wasn't invited
mathteach Posted:

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I'm doing the same thing. I think it will eliminate add-ons.

angl2001 Posted:

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Posted by siffleuse319

on your RSVP card:
'___ seats have been reserved in your honor'.

This could seriously eliminate many of my troubles before they arise. I'm hoping that you ladies think this has an air of formality as opposed to downright rude.



I thought of doing this but FH said he didnt want to......so ill be making phone calls to people who add a guest lol
LIprincess Posted:

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In my opinion I think its fine. I was actually thinking abotu writing the same thing on mine. I hate confrotations, so I would rather address that situation before anythign happens. I'm sure it wont prevent EVERYONE from doing what they want, but it may help

TommysWife08 Posted:

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Posted by angl2001


Posted by siffleuse319

on your RSVP card:
'___ seats have been reserved in your honor'.

This could seriously eliminate many of my troubles before they arise. I'm hoping that you ladies think this has an air of formality as opposed to downright rude.



I thought of doing this but FH said he didnt want to......so ill be making phone calls to people who add a guest lol



same here - i hope i dont have to make many of these phone calls tho
Saram Posted:

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good idea

bridezilla08 Posted:

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I did it and I don't see a problem doing it.

tlp123 Posted:

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We did it. Some people still added guests.
siffleuse319 Posted:

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We did it. Some people still added guests.


I don't get it. Did you tell them 'no'?
lyss0908 Posted:

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Wow I have never heard of doing it that way! Great idea!!!! i think I am going to propose we use that verbiage ourselves!! lol (sorry, trying to sound formal- in a very weird mood this evening)

SugaBeans Posted:

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i like it. do you add a line for their response too??

loislane Posted:

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I think it's a good idea.

siffleuse319 Posted:

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The RSVP Card Says This:

We're Looking Forward to Celebrating With You!
____Seats have been reserved in your honor.

M________________________

____ Will Attend
____ Will Not Attend

Number of Guests____


And right after I designed and ordered it...I started to feel like a jerk. I was considering placing another order for the standard ones. But part of me really feels like the one I ordered is just fine. And you all helped to validate it. Thanks.
heathermatt Posted:

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i think it is a great idea....wish i did it ?

tlp123 Posted:

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Posted by siffleuse319


We did it. Some people still added guests.


I don't get it. Did you tell them 'no'?



The wording was something like '2 seats have been reserved in your honor'.

'____ of ____ will be attending'

And some people still put 3 of 3 when we only said 2 seats have been reserved. It worked out though b/c we were initially under our minimum guarantee and needed to invite more people anyway.
mRm2008 Posted:

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That is a great idea
jessica08bride Posted:

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i did this too.

krisa1129 Posted:

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I just ordered mine, and I was wondering if I should do something like this, but I didn't end up doing it.....kind of wish I did though!! Oh well...will have to deal with these issues later on I guess!

Cutechef729 Posted:

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Posted by angl2001


Posted by siffleuse319

on your RSVP card:
'___ seats have been reserved in your honor'.

This could seriously eliminate many of my troubles before they arise. I'm hoping that you ladies think this has an air of formality as opposed to downright rude.



I thought of doing this but FH said he didnt want to......so ill be making phone calls to people who add a guest lol



If FH says he doesn't want to...he has to call them. Not you haha.
I think it's a great thing to put on rsvp card. I'm adding this thread to my notebook.

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