Is it rude for someone to ask

Original post by FutureMrsMacci

May 22, 2008 11:08 AM

How big your e-ring is???

I mean its one thing if you know the person really well then I really dont care but last night I felt really uncomfortable.

Fh and I went out with another couple and I have only met the girl twice and she kept staring at my ring (we were standing on line for a show for about an hour) and then she was like how big is that thing?? I dont know... I love my ring so much but I get embarrassed because I feel that people judge me and fh when I tell them, but not in a good way.

Marissa09Bride Posted: May 22, 2008 01:39 PM

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For me I think it depends on how the question was asked. I think it's way worse to ask how much it cost.

oldfriendoflive Posted: May 22, 2008 02:05 PM

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It really should not matter on the size of the diamond. I see a lost of people stare at my ring. It is funny to watch their eyes follow my hand just to catch a glimsp. I am not even sure on the exact size of my diamond and no one aske me YET. size should not matter.

VickiR510 Posted: May 22, 2008 02:10 PM

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I think its rude sort of. I think its even worse when they ask for color & etc. R U SERIOUS??? But hey if you really want to know ill be honest!

chicky724 Posted: May 22, 2008 02:23 PM

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Wow... SO RUDE!

I don't mind if one of my good friends ask but if someone I barely knew asked I would have been like Ummm what?

Autumnbride03 Posted: May 22, 2008 02:26 PM

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personally, it doesn't bother me... I'm proud to show it off!

I don't like the 'how much did it cost' question though. Although I haven't gotten that yet :)

ItalianMcBride09 Posted: May 22, 2008 02:36 PM

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How about the time someone said to me...'I thought 1 ct was alot bigger than that...' I was like what....

BarbieGrl10 Posted: May 22, 2008 02:38 PM

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Posted by ItalianMcBride09

How about the time someone said to me...'I thought 1 ct was alot bigger than that...' I was like what....

Ugh! Some people have no class!

FutureMrsMacci Posted: May 22, 2008 02:39 PM

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Posted by ItalianMcBride09

How about the time someone said to me...'I thought 1 ct was alot bigger than that...' I was like what....

people are idiots!

NickandTara426 Posted: May 22, 2008 02:40 PM

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Posted by ItalianMcBride09

How about the time someone said to me...'I thought 1 ct was alot bigger than that...' I was like what....

OMG how could someone say that!!!????

ItalianMcBride09 Posted: May 22, 2008 02:44 PM

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Posted by NickandTara426

Posted by ItalianMcBride09

How about the time someone said to me...'I thought 1 ct was alot bigger than that...' I was like what....

OMG how could someone say that!!!????

I was like

so_in_love630 Posted: May 22, 2008 02:55 PM

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yeah... i think thats pretty rude!

PoppedInASnap Posted: May 22, 2008 03:51 PM

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I get asked if mine is real all the time and it bothers me to no end...its not even that big!

ItalianMcBride09 Posted: May 22, 2008 03:54 PM

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Posted by MrsFazz2B

I get asked if mine is real all the time and it bothers me to no end...its not even that big!

I think they ask because it is a unique shape so Power to you for having something that gets peoples attention!!

beram63 Posted: May 22, 2008 04:41 PM

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i hear women ask that all the time when a girl walks in w/ a new e-ring. they don't seem to care much about the actual wedding, just 'Let me see the ring! How big is it???'

idk if it's 'rude' technically, but i def don't like what it reflects about the person's values.