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Is it strange...?

StephanieXO Posted:

Is it strange...?

That every time I get a check done, I get a little sad? Sad that our wedding seems so far away still, and that after all my big checks are done, there will be nothing left to do for a year?? Everyone says it will go fast, but will it really??

Soon2BeMrsPy Posted:

Is it strange...?

YES!!! Fh and I are 10 days away from our 6 month mark and I remember it being so far away just a moment ago. Goes by quick.

MsErikaLynn Posted:

Is it strange...?

I feel the same way!!

meejack1110 Posted:

Is it strange...?

I feel that way too! It feels sooooo far away, and yet I know it's coming. I just think gosh I've gotten so much done what will I do with my free time while I wait? lol Thats why I've been on a little hiatus with the checks..just trying to pace myself lol

StephanieXO Posted:

Is it strange...?

That's what I am doing too! It's anxiety from a mix of 'Oh I should book flowers before my date gets booked' versus 'If I book flowers now, I will have nothing to look forward to for a while.' lol. I am glad I'm not alone!

dariamarie2 Posted:

Is it strange...?

That's why I didn't try to book anything too far in advanced. I didn't want to plan my wedding and then a year before have nothing to do. The only thing is so many people book so far in advanced that I was nervous about not getting who/what I wanted. It a good but sad thing at the same time lol

Terriechick Posted:

Is it strange...?

Im 8 & 1/2 out and I am looking to wrap up major vendors now. Def have been cutting it thin but since we have been trying to hire vendors affected by Sandy to help them out I have so far not run into any problems.. fingers crossed.. I have Limos, Photo, Video and flowers to go!

RoandJoe Posted:

Is it strange...?

Soo not strange. All I have left to do is get my dress and BM/GM outfits. I'm kind of just sitting here twiddling my thumbs for the next year and a half. Once I get my dress I'll REALLY be bored!

StephanieXO Posted:

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Posted by dariamarie2

That's why I didn't try to book anything too far in advanced. I didn't want to plan my wedding and then a year before have nothing to do. The only thing is so many people book so far in advanced that I was nervous about not getting who/what I wanted. It a good but sad thing at the same time lol



This is exactly how I feel. Unfortunately I am having a little bit of regret having such a long engagement, but I hope it comes here soon. Everyone's saying 'whats the rush?' and I guess I just have to ask myself that same question and just ENJOY being engaged!
StephanieXO Posted:

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Posted by RoandJoe

Soo not strange. All I have left to do is get my dress and BM/GM outfits. I'm kind of just sitting here twiddling my thumbs for the next year and a half. Once I get my dress I'll REALLY be bored!



I know!!! Well I guess when us fall 2014 brides have all of our checks done we can drive each other nuts with unnecessary DIY ideas. lol
luckyerialc Posted:

Is it strange...?

I totally feel that way! I really don't have anything major left other than STDs, BM dresses, invitations, and favors! I'm trying to force myself to space them out!
Lori0413 Posted:

Is it strange...?

I can def understand that. The only major vendor I have left to book is flowers. There are so many little projects to do as the day gets closer though, so you'll still have plenty left to do!

jenandivan Posted:

Is it strange...?

I was hesitant to book too many things when we first got engaged in September. Now that we've only got 8 months left, I need everything booked by the end of the month! We need time to pay this stuff off. Time is FLYING! Venue booked already, need flowers and limo done. DJ was done a while ago (works with FH). Dress done, working on BM gowns by the end of August.

Angie2014 Posted:

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Posted by ReadyToBeAMrs

Hahaha I guess it could be, but I'd be so happy to have all of it over with. I'm the kind of person who hates to have too many things on her To Do list (and I have a running hand written one) so I'm most happy when things are just DONE.



I am like this too! I'd rather have them done sooner rather than later, otherwise I'll just get anxiety. Besides, I know I'm going to be super busy at work starting this fall until the wedding, so I'm trying to get as much out of the way as possible! I do wish we were married already though, I am often tempted to get married at Town Hall lol..

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